He deleted her from everything back then. Now, a year and a half later, he created a fake facebook account and re-added her. He waited until I thought things were going well. I woke up at 1am to catch him on the computer with her, calling her stunning, beautiful, the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, and begging to go to her house and visit her, and saying he misses her so much and how when he gets there she should wear something sexy so he can ogle her.

There’s more, but I’m already nauseous. He was sitting in my living room, looking right at me and my daughter who had fallen asleep on the floor, when he did this. We were right in front of him, and he chose her.

It took him four months to set this up.

So can a cheater stop cheating? Nope. And anyone who thinks they will is brain dead. His brother told me everyone deserves a second chance and I said “Look, I know he is trash. Maybe another guy will be trash, maybe not. But he is a PROVEN ENTITY”.

This is for men who cheat, especially married men: MY HUSBAND LOST EVERYTHING.

EVERYTHING.

On the night it happened, I started screaming and crying. I told him I wished he would just die, just effing die because it is better than losing the person I thought I knew. It’s like someone has died and you will never see them again. The man you loved is dead and gone.

And after I found out about her, so did everyone else. And when they found out he was trying to get back with his ex, they all started coming over. The guys wanted to beat the hell out of him. The women wanted to beat the hell out of him. Everyone called him a piece of crap.

He will never see his children again. He will never see his wife again. And most of his family will not speak to him.

Fun water slide? I don’t think so. The bald no-excuses, no bullshit truth, is that you’re trading in someone you love and care about as a human being for someone superficial with a differently shaped flap of skin between her legs.

There are two usual reasons men cheat:

1. They feel inferior to you, and need a woman who will boost their ego. This generally leads to the question: “How could he have cheated on me with that ugly girl/stoner/jobless loser” “I’m not even ugly or fat” etc.

2. They had no feelings for you in the first place.
Sometimes men date, and even marry, women who they don’t really like, due to social pressure. Mom likes her, she’s a nice girl. Dad likes her. Our dogs like eachother. This is known as the “girl in the background” cheater (like my ex). He has always had a thing for bondage chicks, but his wife is an avid churchgoer. He loved his ex girlfriend, but his parent’s couldn’t stand her.

Oh, and one other reason men cheat: lack of variety. I knew a guy who cheated because his girlfriend wouldn’t poo on his chest. Another one who cheated because his girlfriend was against gagging him in a corner and beating him.

Generally though, cheaters are men who hide things rather than being honest and bringing them out in the open.

A non-cheater who felt the same way about the waterslide might say:

“Hey, I’m not in the mood for a committed relationship right now. How about we just have sex?”

A man who gets into a committed relationship knowing he is a hider, a liar, and a cheater, is only doing it to hurt someone.

2. Holy crap, those talkin’ dogs were unbelievable.