Comments on: The Secret to Getting a Man to Fall Madly in Love With You? A Reader Request http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/ Ask for Jeff Mac's advice on what men think -- about relationships, dating, sex, love, squirrels, whatever. Tue, 27 Jul 2010 15:10:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: not telling :-) http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-5700 not telling :-) Sat, 06 Dec 2008 14:08:48 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-5700 There is no way to get a man to fall in love with you. Just be nice and respectful, and let fate runs its course. Love will just naturally happen There is no way to get a man to fall in love with you. Just be nice and respectful, and let fate runs its course. Love will just naturally happen

]]> By: Jeff Mac http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-2844 Jeff Mac Sat, 27 Oct 2007 17:54:40 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-2844 amurray: Actions not words -- best possible advice for reading a man. Thanks for the comment! amurray: Actions not words — best possible advice for reading a man. Thanks for the comment!

]]> By: amurray http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-2843 amurray Fri, 26 Oct 2007 23:51:33 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-2843 DON'T BE A PUSH OVER, EASY OR NEEDY. BE CONFIDENT, FRIENDLY AND ONE OF THE GUYS, BUT WITH FEMININITY UNTIL YOU KNOW HE'S INTO YOU AND ONLY U ACTIONS WILL TELL, IT'S WHAT HE DOES, NOT WHAT HE SAYS DON’T BE A PUSH OVER, EASY OR NEEDY. BE CONFIDENT, FRIENDLY AND ONE OF THE GUYS, BUT WITH FEMININITY UNTIL YOU KNOW HE’S INTO YOU AND ONLY U
ACTIONS WILL TELL, IT’S WHAT HE DOES, NOT WHAT HE SAYS

]]> By: Jeff Mac http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-2842 Jeff Mac Sat, 06 Oct 2007 20:40:34 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-2842 <strong>DG</strong>: Totally agree. When you're YOU, you're going to attract the person who wants that. (Great post over at DatingGoddess.com as well!) And thank you for finally solving the peach on earth thing. DG: Totally agree. When you’re YOU, you’re going to attract the person who wants that. (Great post over at DatingGoddess.com as well!)

And thank you for finally solving the peach on earth thing.

]]> By: Getting a man to fall for you « Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-2841 Getting a man to fall for you « Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 Sat, 06 Oct 2007 19:00:49 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-2841 [...] a man to fall for you My friend Jeff Mac addressed an interesting question from one of his Manslation.com readers. She asked for the trick to getting a man to fall hopelessly [...] [...] a man to fall for you My friend Jeff Mac addressed an interesting question from one of his Manslation.com readers. She asked for the trick to getting a man to fall hopelessly [...]

]]> By: Dating Goddess http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-2840 Dating Goddess Fri, 05 Oct 2007 19:51:27 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-2840 Jeff: I have what may be as simple an answer to this question as yours. How you make a man fall in love with you? Become the woman who loves yourself so much (not in an arrogant way) that men can't help but be drawn to you. Women tend to be so down on themselves, always pointing out the few extra pounds they need to lose, or other "flaws," or talking about the losers they've been dumped by -- all *while* on a date! Men hate this. Have the confidence to show you like, really like yourself! And those who have similar feelings about themselves will come your way. And Jeff, you are right, part of dating is having fun while you wait for *your* guy to show up. If you eschew dating because everyone you come across doesn't meet your standards and you don't want to "waste your time," you'll be twiddling your thumbs alone on Saturday night The time will pass whether you are casually dating a few guys or not. The trick is to know when to not let it progress so he thinks it's more serious than you feel. That trick is called "honesty," telling guys you're wanting to find a LTR and that takes getting to know someone before you're willing to commit to being exclusive. And finally, Jeff, the secret to Peach on Earth: Fuzz. Dating Goddess http://www.DatingGoddess.com Jeff: I have what may be as simple an answer to this question as yours. How you make a man fall in love with you? Become the woman who loves yourself so much (not in an arrogant way) that men can’t help but be drawn to you.

Women tend to be so down on themselves, always pointing out the few extra pounds they need to lose, or other “flaws,” or talking about the losers they’ve been dumped by — all *while* on a date! Men hate this. Have the confidence to show you like, really like yourself! And those who have similar feelings about themselves will come your way.

And Jeff, you are right, part of dating is having fun while you wait for *your* guy to show up. If you eschew dating because everyone you come across doesn’t meet your standards and you don’t want to “waste your time,” you’ll be twiddling your thumbs alone on Saturday night The time will pass whether you are casually dating a few guys or not. The trick is to know when to not let it progress so he thinks it’s more serious than you feel. That trick is called “honesty,” telling guys you’re wanting to find a LTR and that takes getting to know someone before you’re willing to commit to being exclusive.

And finally, Jeff, the secret to Peach on Earth: Fuzz.

Dating Goddess
http://www.DatingGoddess.com

]]> By: Jeff Mac http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-2839 Jeff Mac Fri, 05 Oct 2007 13:00:49 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-2839 <strong>Susan</strong>: Look, bring the diaper. If you don't need it, so what? But if you need it and don't bring it, well, you're going to feel a little foolish, aren't you? Have fun in the city! Susan: Look, bring the diaper. If you don’t need it, so what? But if you need it and don’t bring it, well, you’re going to feel a little foolish, aren’t you?

Have fun in the city!

]]> By: Susan http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-2838 Susan Thu, 04 Oct 2007 22:38:18 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-2838 I've pulled out my adult diaper and gassed up the car to make a little road trip..NY here I come! KIDDING ( well about the car. I'm really going to NY this weekend - by plane. I may still pack the diaper.) by the way, after bragging about my ability to recall dates I couldn't find that stupid post after all! Hmph. Lost the stupid spreadsheet. I’ve pulled out my adult diaper and gassed up the car to make a little road trip..NY here I come!

KIDDING
( well about the car. I’m really going to NY this weekend – by plane. I may still pack the diaper.)

by the way, after bragging about my ability to recall dates I couldn’t find that stupid post after all! Hmph. Lost the stupid spreadsheet.

]]> By: Jeff Mac http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-2837 Jeff Mac Thu, 04 Oct 2007 19:11:54 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-2837 Oh sure, Susan, not stalking at all. Suuuure. I'm just SURE you don't have a manslations date tracking spreadsheet, night vision goggles, duct tape, and chloroform at the ready... Oh sure, Susan, not stalking at all. Suuuure. I’m just SURE you don’t have a manslations date tracking spreadsheet, night vision goggles, duct tape, and chloroform at the ready…

]]> By: Susan http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/comment-page-1/#comment-2836 Susan Thu, 04 Oct 2007 18:47:44 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/10/02/the-secret-to-getting-a-man-to-fall-madly-in-love-with-you-a-reader-request/#comment-2836 Loralei...I don't know Jesse James (or was it Jesse Joyce?), although it appears that he is from the fine Steel City where I now live. Anyway, Jeff writes about his manly - oh so manly friendship nothing more - with Mr. JJ. in a post dated around September 17 or 18, hence my reference because I KNOW that neither is trying to get the other to fall in love with him. No way. You can check out the post. (They're both cute, aren't they now - especially when trying to explain their manly friendship.) Jeff, I'm not stalking your site. I'm just good with dates -- ha, I wish. Loralei…I don’t know Jesse James (or was it Jesse Joyce?), although it appears that he is from the fine Steel City where I now live. Anyway, Jeff writes about his manly – oh so manly friendship nothing more – with Mr. JJ. in a post dated around September 17 or 18, hence my reference because I KNOW that neither is trying to get the other to fall in love with him. No way. You can check out the post. (They’re both cute, aren’t they now – especially when trying to explain their manly friendship.)

Jeff, I’m not stalking your site. I’m just good with dates — ha, I wish.

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