Okay, perhaps Your week’s ending was less than stellar…but, there’s another one coming! Hope that above woe isn’t because some “girl” refused 2give “it”.

Some honest chitchat must = AWOL when someone who wants sex ends up w/someone who doesn’t!

Master Ben [familiarity, ok!], Your lingo of “girl” as *women* is belittled by Your absent lingo of “boy” as *men*. That seems 2ignore the routine maturation of females as women BUT presumes the routine maturation of males as men [am saying so as a past/present/future Girl!].

Thousand pardons if U’re beng misread;
if so, t’is reflection of Your own comments.
BTW…just as “femininity” is attractive 2men, *masculinity* attracts women!

Moaning absence of “a man” is psycho-emotionally rightful if NO man who acts as a *Man* is present. Same is true when men moan absence of a *Woman*. The moaning isn’t about physical presence! A thousand males counted as present doesn’t mean that there’s ONE Man in the room! No offense, of course.

It’s wise that we “glamorize” every good facet , but recognize the reality that often it’s only diamonds which shine w/54!

Dear Ben, Peace+Joy onU!

It could also be this. Too many women become ball busting, career oriented only, always has an opinion, loud mouth, always comparing what they don’t have compared to men, bitches. Believe it not, if you were truly smart, you would know that this isn’t sexy. Despite the name of feminism, feminism has nothing to do with femininity which is something that attract guys–surprise!

This isn’t to say that one shouldn’t have confidence or can’t hold a decent conversation, or have an opinion, etc.

These girls glamorize that they are “so smart,” “so high and mighty,” “that they don’t need men,” they can take care of themselves,” yet moan that they can’t get a man. If the knew as much as they thought they did they wouldn’t be in the predicament.

But your words make me feel hopeful again. Thank you.

I’ll be back.