Comments on: A Gal Asking a Guy Out?

By: Joel Vargas

Joel Vargas — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 06:54:51 +0000

There is nothing wrong if a girl will ask a guy out. Perhaps, for some, it is better if a guy will ask a girl out just like the old tradition.

By: Wilmo

Wilmo — Fri, 23 May 2008 16:47:06 +0000

Asking a guy out?
Never worked for me, and I did it at least…once.
Men SAY , they like it. However, I believe they like the chase better and asking a guy out tends to take away from that chase, usually.

By: hunter

hunter — Sat, 22 Dec 2007 15:34:47 +0000

to jeff,

…..doesn’t history have it, that, before civilization, women did the persuing? What happened then?

By: Jeff Mac

Jeff Mac — Thu, 20 Dec 2007 12:24:28 +0000

Elizabeth: Well, I don’t know about old fashioned, but…what bad thing would happen if a woman openly pursued a man?

By: Elizabeth

Elizabeth — Wed, 19 Dec 2007 23:39:12 +0000

Am I really oldfashioned why I say a woman should never openly pursue a man?
I hope it works out for you, let us know how it went!

By: Jeff Mac

Jeff Mac — Wed, 19 Dec 2007 12:05:30 +0000

Theatregal: Yeah, in your quest to start a relationship, let the word “friend” be a warning area.

hunter: Just a joke about “the old manuscripts.” No worries.

By: hunter

hunter — Wed, 19 Dec 2007 04:52:08 +0000

to jeff mac,

…Cosmo?…reallly?…..somehow I don’t understand….hhhmmmhh

By: Theatregal

Theatregal — Wed, 19 Dec 2007 02:37:44 +0000

I think starting out as “friends” is probably not the way to go. “Friends” rarely turn into “boyfriends”. Once a man is your “friend”, he’s asking you advice about other women, he’s treating you like one of the guys, etc. Better to not label it at all and just see where it goes after coffee or whatever. Ask him!

By: Jeff Mac

Jeff Mac — Tue, 18 Dec 2007 16:03:23 +0000

hunter: Well, clearly SOMEone hasn’t been reading Cosmo…(and I’m pretty sure it’s me.)

Sassy: Blind date with a fireman! Kick ass!

By: Sassy

Sassy — Tue, 18 Dec 2007 14:02:54 +0000

Thanks for all the good thoughts and insights. Jeff, I like the part that actually says that if a guy is an exception, let him know it. I’ll keep you all posted. Probably nothing happening with this fish until after the holidays. Now, about my blind date tomorrow with the fireman…..