Comments on: What do men fantasize about? What’s “cool”?

By: Jeff Mac

Jeff Mac — Mon, 07 Jan 2008 02:56:09 +0000

didi: What I mean is that men generally don’t fantasize about romance. Not just “those” men, either. And we’re super sorry about being sucks.

By: didi

didi — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 13:58:26 +0000

does that mean that men only fantasize about banging any girl and that it ???? or do they fantasize about how much they would love to f… her over and over . i think those men are sucks and a piece of shit

By: Melissa

Melissa — Sat, 29 Dec 2007 01:56:28 +0000

ok..like…im sorry but even chicks kno that every guys fantasy is jessica alba…duhh

By: Theatregal

Theatregal — Tue, 25 Dec 2007 09:22:25 +0000

Well, Hunter, I’ve always been that girl and I’m good looking, funny, fun, smart, and am always myself and honest. I’m not a good at game playing. So, Where is he? My last guy always said that “I made him want to be a better man” and he was “honored by my love”. But he still needed a stable. I wanted to be the one and only, not the one of many. I told him that at the very beginning. He told me he wanted the same thing. Apparently not. He still doesn’t want to completely let me go. He says, “I can’t commit, but I can’t let go.” This is him talking.
I finally let go. We’ll see what happens. He usually freaks when I don’t behave in my usual way. His reaction when I don’t answer the phone should be interesting.
Happy Holidays!

By: hunter

hunter — Sun, 23 Dec 2007 16:34:30 +0000

Two things that we want. We want a woman to be there, be available. We want a woman, that can be herself, one that we can help us be real…

By: Theatregal

Theatregal — Sat, 22 Dec 2007 02:05:32 +0000

He did thank his brother in Spanish and French, although even though my French is a little shaky now, brother is frere with an “e” on the end, I believe. First two words, Spanish…Second two words French. So, that would make our boy Trilingual, when we include English. Amazing!

By: Susan

Susan — Fri, 21 Dec 2007 18:10:29 +0000

You’re bilingual…even though I think you just thanked your brother!

de nada, mi amigo de la magnifica traduccion de los hombres

(AP Spanish in high school. I had to look up the word for “translation”, but still…)

By: Jeff Mac

Jeff Mac — Fri, 21 Dec 2007 14:26:25 +0000

Susan: Muchos gracias, mon frer.

mar: Your friends were honest with you. I think you might have your own personal manslators. Cling to them with hoops of, you know, steel and stuff.

Sian: Always a good idea. Get your OWN thing together, and the right guys come a flockin’. Or at least you don’t need to mess too much with the wrong ones.

LA Lady: Good idea for a post. In general, I guess what I’m saying is that guys do like it when a woman seems to be caught up in something that is unusual and unexpected for her. As opposed to, you know, the idea that she’s seen his kind before, and Y-A-W-N.

By: LA Lady

LA Lady — Fri, 21 Dec 2007 07:37:15 +0000

Hi Jeff,

I loved this post, especially the visual in my head with the chipmunk and 800 channels of porn! I think I finally understand what you have been saying about guys having sex in their heads with every women they come across. Great explanation!

I would like to know more about the comment “men like to feel like there is danger in the air”. What exactly does that mean? Keep them off balance? Don’t fall into a rut? How about a post that explains that concept in more detail?

Thanks,

LA Lady

By: Sian

Sian — Fri, 21 Dec 2007 02:48:17 +0000

Good answer manslator. ….but I can’t help ponder that rather than worrying about what a man thinks is cool, women could work out what they think is cool in a guy. Then it becomes a level playing field.
Therein lies the answer.