Comments on: The Post-Coital Personality Shift http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/ Advice for smart women who are tired of feeling so stupid about men. Fri, 04 May 2012 06:11:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Reuben Mido http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-8407 Reuben Mido Fri, 09 Mar 2012 04:11:22 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-8407 I Think it's cool cause have done the same thing and still doing it, so i go with you Sally on this... I Think it’s cool cause have done the same thing and still doing it, so i go with you Sally on this…

]]> By: Theatregal http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-3584 Theatregal Tue, 05 Feb 2008 10:41:16 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-3584 I just learned through experience after my divorce what worked for me and what didn't. Hunter, it has absolutely nothing to do with being a good or bad girl. I wasn't raised to believe in such things. I had a Mother who told me never to get married...maybe live with the guy. Just be sure I let her know before I had sex , so she could take me to the dr. and get me on the pill. This was the 70s. I was in Junior HIgh. She still says she doesn't know where I came from. I tried the "friend's with benefits" thing after my divorce. It's just not for me. I enjoy a "one and only" type of relationship, not a "one of many". Even in between, I have a tough time separating love and sex after a while. I get invested and then the guys asking......What happened? I thought this was casual. I learned I can't do casual.....at least not more than a couple of times. Then, I start to get in trouble. If there's enough chemistry to want to rip the guys clothes off, then, that can just too easily grow into something more intense for me. That's just me. Carry on, those who can avoid getting too invested!! I just learned through experience after my divorce what worked for me and what didn’t. Hunter, it has absolutely nothing to do with being a good or bad girl. I wasn’t raised to believe in such things. I had a Mother who told me never to get married…maybe live with the guy. Just be sure I let her know before I had sex , so she could take me to the dr. and get me on the pill. This was the 70s. I was in Junior HIgh.
She still says she doesn’t know where I came from.
I tried the “friend’s with benefits” thing after my divorce. It’s just not for me. I enjoy a “one and only” type of relationship, not a “one of many”. Even in between, I have a tough time separating love and sex after a while. I get invested and then the guys asking……What happened? I thought this was casual. I learned I can’t do casual…..at least not more than a couple of times. Then, I start to get in trouble. If there’s enough chemistry to want to rip the guys clothes off, then, that can just too easily grow into something more intense for me. That’s just me. Carry on, those who can avoid getting too invested!!

]]> By: LoveLife http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-3583 LoveLife Wed, 30 Jan 2008 04:00:25 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-3583 Sally, Been there, lady, and done that. Trust me, walk away now with your dignity intact. A man who wants you will pursue you in earnest--you will not have to guess what he's thinking or what he wants. You will know. You will live to love another day. And you have the power now to find a man who deserves that love. "You can stay over if you want to" is lackluster and you deserve a man's unbridled enthusiasm. You deserve to be chased. Don't settle for less. Sally,

Been there, lady, and done that. Trust me, walk away now with your dignity intact. A man who wants you will pursue you in earnest–you will not have to guess what he’s thinking or what he wants. You will know.

You will live to love another day. And you have the power now to find a man who deserves that love. “You can stay over if you want to” is lackluster and you deserve a man’s unbridled enthusiasm. You deserve to be chased. Don’t settle for less.

]]> By: hunter http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-3582 hunter Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:25:39 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-3582 to theatergirl, the reasoning behind that is,...you don't have to be a good girl as you wait for the "right" man to show up in your life.... to theatergirl,

the reasoning behind that is,…you don’t have to be a good girl as you wait for the “right” man to show up in your life….

]]> By: Theatregal http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-3581 Theatregal Fri, 25 Jan 2008 13:30:01 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-3581 Selena and Jeff: I’m with you. “The Friends with benefits and/or priliviges” thing has never done it for me. After my 30 year relationship, ( 25 of them married, five year boyfriend-girlfriend….on and off) I got out there. Definitely, not all it’s cracked up to be. At least not for me. Ray: You’re either an ass or exceptionally young or immature. So sad. You sound like the double standard guy. Two sets of rules…..one for the guy and one for the gal. It’s 2008, not 1958. Everyone is different. What’s good for the goose is not always good for the gander and vice versa.. We just have to find the one who fits. And there are a LOT of combos! I love , “Intimate Communion” by David Deida and Maryanne Williamson’s, “Enchanted Love”. Selena and Jeff: I’m with you. “The Friends with benefits and/or priliviges” thing has never done it for me. After my 30 year relationship, ( 25 of them married, five year boyfriend-girlfriend….on and off) I got out there. Definitely, not all it’s cracked up to be. At least not for me.
Ray: You’re either an ass or exceptionally young or immature. So sad. You sound like the double standard guy. Two sets of rules…..one for the guy and one for the gal. It’s 2008, not 1958. Everyone is different. What’s good for the goose is not always good for the gander and vice versa.. We just have to find the one who fits. And there are a LOT of combos! I love , “Intimate Communion” by David Deida and Maryanne Williamson’s, “Enchanted Love”.

]]> By: Theatregal http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-3580 Theatregal Fri, 25 Jan 2008 13:17:40 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-3580 Selena and Jeff: I'm with you. "The Friends with benefits and/or priliviges" thing has never done it for me. After my 25 year relationship, ( 25 of them married, five year boyfriend-girlfriend....on and off) I got out there. Definitely,not all it's cracked up to be. At least not for me. Ray: You're either an ass or exceptionally young or immature. So sad. You sound like the double standard guy. Two sets of rules.....one for the guy and one for the gal. It's 2008, not 1958. Everyone is different. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. We just have to find the one who fits. And there are a LOT of combos! I love , "Intimate Communion" by David Deida and Maryanne Williamson's, "Enchanted Love". Selena and Jeff: I’m with you. “The Friends with benefits and/or priliviges” thing has never done it for me. After my 25 year relationship, ( 25 of them married, five year boyfriend-girlfriend….on and off) I got out there. Definitely,not all it’s cracked up to be. At least not for me.
Ray: You’re either an ass or exceptionally young or immature. So sad. You sound like the double standard guy. Two sets of rules…..one for the guy and one for the gal. It’s 2008, not 1958. Everyone is different. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. We just have to find the one who fits. And there are a LOT of combos! I love , “Intimate Communion” by David Deida and Maryanne Williamson’s, “Enchanted Love”.

]]> By: aznboi_la http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-3579 aznboi_la Fri, 25 Jan 2008 08:34:22 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-3579 Right on Ray.^^^^ Wham-Bam...now that answer was "Manslation " Right on Ray.^^^^
Wham-Bam…now that answer was “Manslation “

]]> By: Ray http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-3578 Ray Fri, 25 Jan 2008 08:27:11 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-3578 Yawn.. What JEFF..you get paid by the word count or what..??? This is just so clear why the long, inflated explanation. Two answers for you sweetheart.: 1) Sally, you're either fat and ugly and caught this guy in a horney mood, and now he wants nothing to do with you. 2) Sally you had sex on date 4.?? Girl, you're too ez, the dude don't respect you, used you, and has moved on. BTW, what's your phone #., i'm looking for a quickie.. LMAO.. cheers..xoxo Yawn.. What JEFF..you get paid by the word count or what..??? This is just so clear why the long, inflated explanation.
Two answers for you sweetheart.:
1) Sally, you’re either fat and ugly and caught this guy in a horney mood, and now he wants nothing to do with you.
2) Sally you had sex on date 4.?? Girl, you’re too ez, the dude don’t respect you, used you, and has moved on.
BTW, what’s your phone #., i’m looking for a quickie..
LMAO.. cheers..xoxo

]]> By: Jeff Mac http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-3577 Jeff Mac Thu, 24 Jan 2008 18:19:00 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-3577 <strong>Terry</strong>: Yeah, that was my thought too. Not exactly rolling out the red carpet. <strong>Loiralei</strong>: I think your mom used to hang out with my grandmother. She had sayings like that pouring out of her ears. (My personal favorite actually was, "Wish in one hand and shit in the other, and see which one gets filled the quickest!") <strong>anonymouse</strong>: Good move on the block to stop YOURSELF from checking. Of course, I've never had to do that myself with, say, checking my web stats. Not at all. Because I'm not compulsive. At all. No really. I swear. <strong>Sally B</strong> -- I'm so glad it's working for you! I'm embarrassed to admit that those sort of arrangements never did for me. (I feel like I'm going to have my Guy Card revoked for that.) But I've known plenty of people for whom it's just the right thing. You get a little action, and you go on with your day. Awesome!!! <strong>Writesome, Selena, & mar</strong>: I'm with you. I always considered it a failing of mine that I couldn't just enjoy commitment-less sex. Ah well. You can't be wonderful in EVERY sense, I suppose... <strong>hunter</strong>: Who's been telling you these things? Some wise person, clearly. <strong>mmagnolia</strong>: Welcome! And get up off the floor, it's embarrassing! Terry: Yeah, that was my thought too. Not exactly rolling out the red carpet.

Loiralei: I think your mom used to hang out with my grandmother. She had sayings like that pouring out of her ears. (My personal favorite actually was, “Wish in one hand and shit in the other, and see which one gets filled the quickest!”)

anonymouse: Good move on the block to stop YOURSELF from checking. Of course, I’ve never had to do that myself with, say, checking my web stats. Not at all. Because I’m not compulsive. At all. No really. I swear.

Sally B — I’m so glad it’s working for you! I’m embarrassed to admit that those sort of arrangements never did for me. (I feel like I’m going to have my Guy Card revoked for that.) But I’ve known plenty of people for whom it’s just the right thing. You get a little action, and you go on with your day. Awesome!!!

Writesome, Selena, & mar: I’m with you. I always considered it a failing of mine that I couldn’t just enjoy commitment-less sex. Ah well. You can’t be wonderful in EVERY sense, I suppose…

hunter: Who’s been telling you these things? Some wise person, clearly.

mmagnolia: Welcome! And get up off the floor, it’s embarrassing!

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/comment-page-1/#comment-3576 mmagnolia Thu, 24 Jan 2008 04:26:00 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/23/the-post-coital-personality-shift/#comment-3576 Dear Gals & Guys ["alpha-as-in-betical" order], ..Hope you folks are real! This is my first-time in this parlor and I leave with a smiling bounty of giggles!! I needed that! Now, pardon me as I hold me sides & fall2floor. Loving Thanks! Dear Gals & Guys ["alpha-as-in-betical" order],
..Hope you folks are real! This is my first-time in this parlor and I leave with a smiling bounty of giggles!! I needed that! Now, pardon me as I hold me sides & fall2floor. Loving Thanks!

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