manslations

Today, we’ve got an excerpt of a longer manslation request. The requester took back a part of her question, but this paragraph has, I think, some very manslatable material. As in, might a guy not date you because of loyalty to his pal — her ex? …I also have no idea if loyalty to his [...]

Happy tax-day, ladies (and the occasional gentleman)! We’ve got a great question today about when the e-flirt turns a little saucy. He says something a little racy, and our reader (non-enigmatically named DatingAt36) is wondering how she might respond positively, but also in such a way that she doesn’t end up with only a quick [...]

Let’s kick off the week with a kind of weird one. A reader named Lisa wants to know: what’s the deal with men and their buddies? (Although, to be fair, ah, I think this isn’t about “men” as much as it’s about “this one specific dude.”) Here’s a question I don’t think you’ve answered yet. [...]

Reader, Kay, is having an issue with a man. Surprised? I know I was when I received her manslations request…oh wait. Right, right. Manslations. Issues with men. Right, right. Anyway, sounds like she’s been with a string of what we in the business call “losers” but has found a winner. And she doesn’t want to [...]

A reader named “tee” is with a good guy with some bad history. In fact, it ain’t exactly “history” yet. Impending divorce. Custody battle. You know, dogs & cats living together, mass hysteria. Seems like he’s saying all the right stuff, but she’s just not sure how long to wait for him to figure all [...]

Today, we’ve got a girl who has a guy who used to have a different girl. Elizabeth is concerned that her man is still hung up on the ex. Let’s see if we can tell from his behavior what’s really going on… Hello! I had come across your site after trying to google the situation [...]

Today, we’ve got a pretty common question: How’s a girl supposed to know when a guy just wants you for sex? And the solution is very, very simple, once you know what you’re looking for. How do you know if a guy just wants you for sex? He claims he wants more than sex. Well, [...]

Ok, here we go folks. This is one of the biggies, I know. What happens when you’ve met a man who is just so crazy-perfect for you it’s stupid…but you’ve got horrible, horrible things to reveal about yourself? When’s a good time to tell him so that you don’t send him running for the hills? [...]

We’ve got a bit of a puzzler here today. It’s not that the question is a tough one to answer. I’m just not 100% sure what the question is. Which is always fun for me to answer. Seems like “Lynn” is getting some action from a guy in her class, and he’s been pretty clear [...]

Ohhh, we’ve got a complex little request here today, ladies. Kirsten just got engaged, and he’s a.) a virgin, and b.) he only knows what he DOES know from watching…ahem…adult cinema. She wants to know — why do men think that “sex” and “making love” are the same, and how can she tell him the [...]