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By: Aria

Aria — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 21:51:05 +0000

jeff i find your posts not just helpfull but hilarious! so i met this guy in work and the chemistry was instant and all i could think about when seeing him was getting him into bed after a week of flirting back and forth he eventually added me on facebook and told me he hadnt stopped thinking about me and the rest of the crap!! ive never been one to sleep around and im not into the whole cleshay and cheesyness that men give before hand in fact i dont even like being cuddled (yeah i know, i know this screams feminist right?) so anyways after an hour of talking via fb i said for him to stop the crap and get down mind and low and behold he was here in a matter of minutes! he told me he was abit nerveous but to hell with it anyways the deed was done twice (hell yeah twice!!) but after he actually just laid in bed with me for about 3 hours spooning me naked :\ me being me thought this was very odd for a guy in his late 20′s who had just done the deed twice (hell yeaah twice ) and want to spoon me after (very odd yeah) but theres a catch he was only in the country for another 3 weeks until going back to another job abroad! (sex on tap for 3 weeks…hell yeah) so i only seen him once again after that night, but he was telling me back and forth how good the sex was and then went cold on me yes ignoring conversastions we were having and just genrally wierd i wasnt bothered by this as i thought fair enough no relationship sounds great (and yes i proberbly should have a penis ) we didnt speak for 3 weeks after he left then all of a sudden he mailed me asking how i was so some pictures were sent back and forth as i am a lingerie model also! then he was telling me he isnt finished with me yet (strange i know) then telling me he misses the sex and spending time with me!! and went on to tell mme i was a good RIDE!! yes ladies you heard right he called a feminist a good RIDE so i havent spoke to him since and hes gone cold again and i just genrally cant be bothered with some one who classes a women as a RIDE!!!

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UK Singles — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 00:21:01 +0000

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By: sansha

sansha — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 18:25:02 +0000

i had sex on first date last night felt abit needy but this has helped thx

By: Jennifer2

Jennifer2 — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 20:36:05 +0000

I really agree with “M – sexual woman.” Friendship is such an important part of building and sustaining a relationship. In my experience, sex on the first date doesn’t deter a guy, but it could prevent you from getting to know each other in other ways. However, if I don’t feel a pretty strong desire to sleep with someone early on in the courtship, it doesn’t happen for me later just because we “waited.”i.e., holding out doesn’t turn me on. Honestly, if a guy is turned on by that, I think there’s something wrong with him. Plus, in my opinion, it’s hard to get close if you’re not intimate. And it’s hard to think of a man romantically if you’re not actually sleeping with him.

By: Dee

Dee — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 21:32:44 +0000

I agree completely w/ Jeff. The guy only leaves after first date sex if that’s what he intended for from beginning. The only obstacle is it’s not always easy to tell what his intentions are from first date, hence it’s better to hold off. Someone who really likes u enough for who he thinks u are, to the point he wants sex w/ u right away, he wont start judging u and thinking u’ve been around the block.

I randomly met this gorgeous guy while on vacation and we went on a date after a few days of texting and talking. Because he was really drop dead gorgeous, I went into the date in my “fling” mode and never planned to see him again. We did it on first date, and boy, he started he now wants to visit me in my hometown, my school town, and tries to convince me to pick a rotation site near him and I can stay w/ him.

Now I’M the one feeling bad for having the intention to walk away after first night.

By: sandrar

sandrar — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 22:36:18 +0000

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By: Observer

Observer — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 05:02:31 +0000

One more thing…I have heard men assume that if a woman has first date sex with one guy, she must be doing it with others. I guess it depends on who you have talked to, b/c I have heard males make negative comments about such things. I have also met men that say they don’t care about a woman’s sexual activity, when they do (they just don’t tell you to your face).

By: Observer

Observer — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 04:59:53 +0000

I have had guys calling back after first-date sex, BUT that’s only b/c they wanted more sex lol.

When trusting my instincts, I think it’s safer to not have sex right away than take the risk just to see if he’s someone that will bail out or stay. What works for me may not work for someone else. I don’t care if other people have sex on the first date, but it’s no longer the right thing for me.

Sure, it was fun when I did do it, but I didn’t get much positive about it….except for some physical pleasure