manslations

What happens when a man repeatedly expresses doubts about the relationship, but always comes back around? Do you trust him? Or are you going to end up getting squish, just like grape (if I may quote Mr. Miyagi)? Rebecca wants to know. She’s got a guy who seems great…but then suddenly he freaks. They talk, [...]

Barby’s been sorta-kinda e-flirting with a man for a little while now, and they finally were getting ready to go out for “a drink.” All of a sudden, he gets squirrelly, and out trots “the girlfriend.” They go out and he explains himself (wait til you hear this one) and Barby’s confused. Why is this [...]

TJo’s man seems to be perfect…except for one little thing that is bugging her. He maintains phone/text contact with some former ladies of his, and it’s bothering her. She trusts he won’t cheat, but still wants him to stop. Should she let this go and hope it goes away on its own? I think it [...]

This guy just can’t take his hand off the breakup switch. Oh, there’s a switch. And this guy keeps on switching it. And Babygirl can’t figure him out. Why does she miss him? And what’s HE doing? Well, let’s figure this thing the eff out, before one of them gets whiplash from all this back [...]

Lea’s question is about men and kissing and…well, my god, it’s so short I don’t know how to summarize it any shorter. Here it is: Why do most men enjoy the tongue down your throat kind of kiss more than the gentle lip kissing that most women enjoy more? Dear Lea, Well, your clairvoyant knowledge [...]

Repeat requester, Frida, has found herself a man (and this time he’s not the CEO of her company! Yay!) What’s the trouble? She’s not interested in him. And they ain’t havin’ no relations. And doesn’t look like she minds that. But the clock’s a-ticking, and she’s wondering if she should just go ahead and settle. [...]

They both know it’s wrong. They both know it’s going nowhere. They both know he’s married. (In all fairness, that’s an easy one to know.) So why are they both still flirting? Michelle feels like her current course is heading down interstate highway I.Q. 59 to Stupidsville, and wants some reassurance that she’s correct in [...]

How do you read a man when his actions are all OVER the place? A reader who very reasonably has named herself “Confused!” has had a rough 4 months. She’s no longer sure what his intentions EVER were. Let’s see if we can piece it together. On, Watson! The game’s afoot! Okay, so here it [...]

If a man feels like you’re his best friend AND he’s attracted to you physically, doesn’t that mean he’ll also want you to be his girlfriend? Senorita Jaquita found out that the answer is NO, but she needs some more manslation. No problemo, Jacquita. I’m here to help. The request is a bit long, but [...]

They’ve never even met in person, and he’s already sending her romantic songs and videos that say “I love you”!? What is she supposed to believe? Can this be for real, or is this just some “player” move to get into her virtual pants? Dawn just wishes she knew how he feels. I just wish [...]