Comments on: Do Men Actually Love?

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 06:07:14 +0000

Happy New Year, All!
Oh, yes…”some men [as do some women] actually love”.

Cheers to Ms. Watching_Snow for sharing perspectives on how ending relationships can be of good service, often by surprise.

Wow! BestBouquets for sharing about having faith in *Love*. Cheers to Your Mr.”same eyes” who is a gem of Your Faith. Yep, faith can be medicinal!

In all Your events, be Blessed w/Joy!

By: Watching_Snow

Watching_Snow — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 15:38:05 +0000

In a cliche sense, my heart has been broken a few times. It took me a while to see that there was attraction and chemistry and the feeling of love during those relationships. Although they didn’t last, I don’t feel as though I wasted my time.

..but that’s kind of going off topic…

I met a person who was unwilling to open himself to anybody. Through meaningless gossip and overcoming other people’s hate and distrust for the guy, I found that I trusted him because he never did anything to me. He showed, rather than told that he cared for me. He trusted me. When he told me that he loved me, his benevolent actions and laughter, showed how true and meaningful those words were to him. So, yes, I believe that there are some men who actually love… He has the same eyes that I do when I look at him, so perhaps, he and I love each other the same way?

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 04:49:11 +0000

Greetings 2U, Ms. strawhat:
Your “faith” m-u-s-t be a Goodthing! With that bonnet, t’is Your time o’ Year!

Be of Greatcheer…You’ve earned IT!

By: strawhat

strawhat — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 20:06:58 +0000

i am 68 i have had loves in my life, my first love loved me so much he beat the shit out of me till i left him,the second tried to hang my son, well he did till i found him unconscious with a rope burn around his neck,the third loved me so much he couldn’t help sharing it with every woman under the sun etc etc,
my last love a yr ago convinced me to move him in with him and from that point he did everything in his power to get me to leave(wants it, cant cope with it), we went through this twice in the space of a yr i am now living in limbo as i took the first unit i could find and hate it,gave up all my stuff because we had double etc
i still have faith silly me
tell me jeff how many men in a 100 are genuine decent people? i would say 1 and you have to be very lucky to find that needle in a hay stack

By: GracieB

GracieB — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 02:34:26 +0000

Re: the beloved Cat and gift of dead mouse.
I have been touched to discover the occasional dead mouse at my doorstep, but I have to say I would never set a cappuccino and a bottle of bath oil in front of my cat. “Here, kitty. These are a few of my favorite things!”
I think it’s an issue of the human capacity to truly pay attention to someone else. And I think women really love that.
If a man gives me something that he values, that’s lovely, but it is not neccessarily a gesture that shows he’s truly paying attention. And although I would not expect more from my cat, I would hope that kind of attention was possible from a man. “Here, honey. A delicous cappuccino to drink in your bath.” Yum. Delicious. Yes, please.
Better than an oil change or sink repair. Or catnip.

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 04:58:19 +0000

Dearperson *GG*,
Suggestion = Share your best Moment & Mettle to t-e-a-c-h Him how2express! Sometimes, the “lack” of expression can be reduced 2simple *suppression*.

First….decide if TheLove U want 2encourage is *Love* U want 2exemplify. That! marker defines the source+type of Love we have & offer.

Love is neither 4the faint, nor feint, but
IF enabled, EnjoySweet Lessons!

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 04:42:07 +0000

Dearperson Ms.X,
Fret not a curl!
No realOffense taken by this Romanticperson who–BTW–refuses to recognize one even if wrapped in ruffles!
Evenmore, Merci Bouffant!

By: Ms.X

Ms.X — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 07:06:38 +0000

mmagnolia…sorry dear lady … I didnt mean to offend anyone !

I used the word ” romantic ” as used in Jeff’s post ( the case of a disappearing romantic). He’s so sweet and caring to give the link again here ! I used the word, in that sense … someone who just loves the idea of being in love … than love itself !

And not necessarily those who are effective in expressing love with words/flowers/poems etc !

And surely, normal romantics can still love after that whirlwind of emotions or the honeymoon phase stops…but not the extreme ‘romantics’ — who just make the whirlwind too intense, that itseems ‘too good to be true’ and once it’s done, they go whooosh ! I meant those kinda people ! Really !

And it’s so good to see us all raise our hands up for the newly wed !

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 05:33:27 +0000

Dear JM&LadyLiz,
Your Everlasting *Love* is blessed by manyHearts out here! Thus, Bfree to pay No mind/or heart to Cyndear who–let’s say– had a horrible week’s end.

Methinks the gender mason-dixon is simply Bcause weGirls *speak* more and more frequently of *Lovestuff* than do Uboys; it’s mathematical. Love=Love!

FYI, “Ms.X”: As a “Romantic”, I can assure U that as one-of-those, we DO love an *other* 4other’s self–just as those non-R’s do!

Also….Professor: Merci 4homework on “each man’s particular dead mouse”….too-too funnee, but hope Udon’t mean that men are bunny-boilers! Thx2 re-study guide of “weapons-grade words”! Hope U’re not staying up 2late cooking up delicious dishes 4us!
Nonethelss…..Bibs On; We Enjoy!

By: GG

GG — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 04:30:52 +0000

I hear you… but how can women train their hearts not to be hurt my the man’s lack of emotional expression? I am having SUCH a hard time with this!