Comments on: Do Men Actually Love?

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Fri, 08 Apr 2011 01:38:08 +0000

Dear “sunqween”,
…am supposing Uintend a touch o’wry!

Humans and apes share 98% o’genes, AND we know Kong was hotblooded!

Besides: Absence of code2love would entail absence of code2feel Loved!

But: If Your theory is on-good-heart, let’s pity TheHims…and love ‘em even More!

By: sunqween

sunqween — Thu, 07 Apr 2011 19:09:48 +0000

No. I don’t think it’s in a man’s genetic code to love.

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 05:15:25 +0000

Dearie ‘christina’…& all Buds,

BTW…My “dearie” glorifies tenderness of Life sentiments–doesn’t marginalize!

Merci4Chance 2reChuckle on dearieJM’s *cat/mouse* biz + 2update my old comment. I recognized a Romantic.. when Romance gotGoodGrip; Time told!

Applause 4Your graciousness in processing + comparing present reality with Your Ideal. Always: Be kind2U!

I’ve never met an *emotional inferiority* which emotional honesty didn’t help remedy! Men can love–as sweetly as can women, AND a dead mouse can be a never-dreamed, Heavenly yeast!

Condolences 4Yr Mom’s heartache, but don’t be persuaded [by another's reality] that *reality* must chill the *ideal*…4U!

Bouquets2U…4Being an EverLoving Self!

By: cristina

cristina — Wed, 02 Mar 2011 05:45:57 +0000

i never fell in love before, and no man has told me they love me either, i though i did, but the guy i told that, told me that i didn’t love him, and i was hurt but realized that he was right. he lied about everything about his life and him, and that i was the only one. so i broke up with him, even thought he wasn’t my bf.
then i after that i started to like another guy who was way older than me, and was a serious burn victim. he was 32 and i am 19. but we never really went on dates or got to know each other since he didn’t like talking to me and he would get angry easily. he convince me to give my virginity to him, telling me that if i do that we might actually make “love”, thinking about that and being insecure, i did it. the making love part never happened and i felted attached to him and on sometimes i would feel like i was in love with him, but now i know that that wasn’t love and good thing that i never told him, becuz he would hav not reacted well. after 5 five months being his blow up doll once a week and not hearing from him the rest of the week, i broke up with him.
i signed up in a dating website, and quickly found a guy that was really nice and good. we could talk for hours everyday, and it was really nice, he made me his gf on feb. 2. he was my first boyfriend, but since then i was only able to enjoy him for a week, and saw him only twice since then he disappeared. idk y, idk wat i did wrong, maybe it was becuz i had sex with him once, becuz after that he was gone, and i felt so secure around him, called me beautiful and perfect. it felted perfect. but now i doubt that i’ll ever hear from him again.
i was raised by my mom, who tells me men r inferior, and they don’t really love, they like to think they do, but they don’t. and its hard not to believe that becuz my dad who gotten into drugs is not here anymore, idk where he is, and the guys in my life hav disappointed me. it seems like its the women who care, not the men.
i don’t like to believe that, and i wish men could b as strong as women and b more caring. i like being a nice girl to the one i am with, but i am tired of being disappointed. and i hav said this everytime i been disappointed but everytime some man comes up that seems like he could b there for me i forget that my mom could b right.

atleast i hav my family
and i am only 19, maybe actually will find love, just right now i can’t see it happening.

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 19:18:08 +0000

Greetings–All ‘Dears’…especially Ms. PN!
HeartyHail, Professor & LadyProfessor!

Ms. Pia’s input is provocative yet, plain! Temptation (for both men & women) can exist and/or be created from the outside!

Being “already committed” seems to strengthen resistance if source of being “tempted” originates from outside.

Being “already committed” can be less of a strengthener if temptation is based on the *insides* of man or woman.

MerciBouquet, Ms. PN!
You enlightened on how commitments are made better when both parties know the Core… of each other’s Heart!

Happy Golden, Delicious Cores w/Gala!

By: Pia Nebress

Pia Nebress — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 04:07:24 +0000

I agree that men also know how to love. However, there are times that they are tempted in doing something wrong even if they are already committed.

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 06:07:14 +0000

Happy New Year, All!
Oh, yes…”some men [as do some women] actually love”.

Cheers to Ms. Watching_Snow for sharing perspectives on how ending relationships can be of good service, often by surprise.

Wow! BestBouquets for sharing about having faith in *Love*. Cheers to Your Mr.”same eyes” who is a gem of Your Faith. Yep, faith can be medicinal!

In all Your events, be Blessed w/Joy!

By: Watching_Snow

Watching_Snow — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 15:38:05 +0000

In a cliche sense, my heart has been broken a few times. It took me a while to see that there was attraction and chemistry and the feeling of love during those relationships. Although they didn’t last, I don’t feel as though I wasted my time.

..but that’s kind of going off topic…

I met a person who was unwilling to open himself to anybody. Through meaningless gossip and overcoming other people’s hate and distrust for the guy, I found that I trusted him because he never did anything to me. He showed, rather than told that he cared for me. He trusted me. When he told me that he loved me, his benevolent actions and laughter, showed how true and meaningful those words were to him. So, yes, I believe that there are some men who actually love… He has the same eyes that I do when I look at him, so perhaps, he and I love each other the same way?

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 04:49:11 +0000

Greetings 2U, Ms. strawhat:
Your “faith” m-u-s-t be a Goodthing! With that bonnet, t’is Your time o’ Year!

Be of Greatcheer…You’ve earned IT!

By: strawhat

strawhat — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 20:06:58 +0000

i am 68 i have had loves in my life, my first love loved me so much he beat the shit out of me till i left him,the second tried to hang my son, well he did till i found him unconscious with a rope burn around his neck,the third loved me so much he couldn’t help sharing it with every woman under the sun etc etc,
my last love a yr ago convinced me to move him in with him and from that point he did everything in his power to get me to leave(wants it, cant cope with it), we went through this twice in the space of a yr i am now living in limbo as i took the first unit i could find and hate it,gave up all my stuff because we had double etc
i still have faith silly me
tell me jeff how many men in a 100 are genuine decent people? i would say 1 and you have to be very lucky to find that needle in a hay stack