Comments on: De-bootying the Booty Call? http://manslations.com/2008/11/26/de-bootying-the-booty-call/ Ask for Jeff Mac's advice on what men think -- about relationships, dating, sex, love, squirrels, whatever. Tue, 27 Jul 2010 15:10:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Jennie D http://manslations.com/2008/11/26/de-bootying-the-booty-call/comment-page-1/#comment-7119 Jennie D Thu, 06 Aug 2009 15:33:08 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1236#comment-7119 Oh my gosh, this guy is hilarious! I have just found his website after getting bored at work and browsing sites - and I have been giggling to myself all afternoon! I am British myself, and this post makes me laugh so much - I feel like we SHOULD add a 'U' to action, just to stir it up a bit....though let me tell you - it looks way better as Colour and you know it! Haha. Anyway, keep up the good work Jeff....I'll be logging on fairly frequently from now on! Oh my gosh, this guy is hilarious! I have just found his website after getting bored at work and browsing sites – and I have been giggling to myself all afternoon! I am British myself, and this post makes me laugh so much – I feel like we SHOULD add a ‘U’ to action, just to stir it up a bit….though let me tell you – it looks way better as Colour and you know it! Haha. Anyway, keep up the good work Jeff….I’ll be logging on fairly frequently from now on!

]]> By: *self-respect* http://manslations.com/2008/11/26/de-bootying-the-booty-call/comment-page-1/#comment-5649 *self-respect* Thu, 27 Nov 2008 20:02:45 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1236#comment-5649 Dear heart-bloke, I was in a very similar situation as you're currently in! What a coincidence! I met a guy that was more than I could have wished for. Slept with him on date one (though I DID spend 3 days at his house afterwards since I live hours away). He was always the initiator, I let him lead. We met up twice a month and had phone sex at least once a week (we would barely talk on the phone unless it was before or after phone sex). We would hang out at his place, make dinner, go dance together, go boating with friends, hang out with friends (who seemed to love me) and go out for dinner etc... BUT... it ALWAYS ended up in sex, unless I said NO. He told me I was a "fun" and effin cool and beautiful and smart etc person and kinky in bed. He also told me he was on cloud nine. Between sex, we had great conversations about politics, religion, life etc... and yes, he played the guitar for me also! I was seeing other guys just to keep myself distracted (just like you!) cause I felt a little "used" and not emotionally reciprocated. But I also thought it was just ME because my friends told me that he CLEARLY liked me. And according to his actions, I thought they were pretty right... Yeah right! We never had THE talk. It had been six months when I finally opened my mouth. I was only talking about my FEAR OF COMMITMENT in general when he may have noticed "escalation" and opened up. He told me that "we" were just about sex and gave me an excuse, that would make sense if I were from another planet (work-related). I cut him off completely and he's still making contact attempts.... sexually related of course... I don't mean to discourage you.... But to me, he sounds quite like "my" guy.... But then again, he's not. Just don't let him "own" you physically AND "emotionally".... We live and we learn... Good luck! No matter what happens... your happiness doesn't depend on HIM! It's within... -Wholeagain PS: Did I miss a red flag somewhere in the process? Dear heart-bloke,

I was in a very similar situation as you’re currently in! What a coincidence! I met a guy that was more than I could have wished for. Slept with him on date one (though I DID spend 3 days at his house afterwards since I live hours away). He was always the initiator, I let him lead.

We met up twice a month and had phone sex at least once a week (we would barely talk on the phone unless it was before or after phone sex). We would hang out at his place, make dinner, go dance together, go boating with friends, hang out with friends (who seemed to love me) and go out for dinner etc… BUT… it ALWAYS ended up in sex, unless I said NO. He told me I was a “fun” and effin cool and beautiful and smart etc person and kinky in bed. He also told me he was on cloud nine. Between sex, we had great conversations about politics, religion, life etc… and yes, he played the guitar for me also!

I was seeing other guys just to keep myself distracted (just like you!) cause I felt a little “used” and not emotionally reciprocated. But I also thought it was just ME because my friends told me that he CLEARLY liked me. And according to his actions, I thought they were pretty right… Yeah right! We never had THE talk.

It had been six months when I finally opened my mouth. I was only talking about my FEAR OF COMMITMENT in general when he may have noticed “escalation” and opened up. He told me that “we” were just about sex and gave me an excuse, that would make sense if I were from another planet (work-related). I cut him off completely and he’s still making contact attempts…. sexually related of course…

I don’t mean to discourage you…. But to me, he sounds quite like “my” guy…. But then again, he’s not. Just don’t let him “own” you physically AND “emotionally”…. We live and we learn… Good luck! No matter what happens… your happiness doesn’t depend on HIM! It’s within…

-Wholeagain

PS: Did I miss a red flag somewhere in the process?

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/11/26/de-bootying-the-booty-call/comment-page-1/#comment-5646 mmagnolia Thu, 27 Nov 2008 06:08:24 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1236#comment-5646 Dear heart-bloke. Yep....t'is quite the spiffy pseudo!) Consider this: The queen 2save is U! Shun teasing of brain & loin, okay! RingleaderJM penned a goodly script. BUT, Yipes...how for His crumpet's sake did U get to "seven" outings [*innings*!] w/o reciprocity from Your side of bed!? U seem really-really hot2trot re-Him, sooo hop2 *IT*---the IT being RJM's scenario of sweetening kick-backs at Your castle. Make it plain that U want Him [every which way]... from Brunch2Breakfast! Make it an in-person query. Study tones more than words--which Prof. discounts. HappyEndings = Beginnings... Puff those sleeves & Move in 4That Thrill! Dear heart-bloke.
Yep….t’is quite the spiffy pseudo!)
Consider this: The queen 2save is U! Shun teasing of brain & loin, okay!

RingleaderJM penned a goodly script.
BUT, Yipes…how for His crumpet’s sake did U get to “seven” outings [*innings*!] w/o reciprocity from Your side of bed!?

U seem really-really hot2trot re-Him, sooo hop2 *IT*—the IT being RJM’s scenario of sweetening kick-backs at Your castle.

Make it plain that U want Him [every which way]… from Brunch2Breakfast!

Make it an in-person query. Study tones more than words–which Prof. discounts.

HappyEndings = Beginnings…
Puff those sleeves & Move in 4That Thrill!

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