Comments on: How Long Before an Ultimatum? http://manslations.com/2008/12/04/how-long-before-an-ultimatum/ Ask for Jeff Mac's advice on what men think -- about relationships, dating, sex, love, squirrels, whatever. Wed, 01 Sep 2010 04:16:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: The Seductress Within http://manslations.com/2008/12/04/how-long-before-an-ultimatum/comment-page-1/#comment-5786 The Seductress Within Mon, 22 Dec 2008 05:30:36 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1256#comment-5786 Diane, you set up the dynamic of a casual, non committed, sexual relationship within a month's time and now are saying that it's not ok with you? I don't get it. If you desire a relationship where a man dates you officially, gets to know you and falls for you, why would begin this arrangement in the first place? You are a sex buddy. Which is fine, I'm not judging, but it is very doubtful that you can turn this around now, imo. When you have "the talk" prepare for him to bail. Diane, you set up the dynamic of a casual, non committed, sexual relationship within a month’s time and now are saying that it’s not ok with you?

I don’t get it. If you desire a relationship where a man dates you officially, gets to know you and falls for you, why would begin this arrangement in the first place?

You are a sex buddy. Which is fine, I’m not judging, but it is very doubtful that you can turn this around now, imo.
When you have “the talk” prepare for him to bail.

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/12/04/how-long-before-an-ultimatum/comment-page-1/#comment-5682 mmagnolia Fri, 05 Dec 2008 02:29:00 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1256#comment-5682 Dear Diane, You've shared another goodly reason why *self-chats* should come first [even B4either of U!]. ...Can't understand how U2 tripped from A-to-Z w/o some preliminary something! Unless...Ohhh... He's so appealing, U changed course & intentions midway. JMdear's *k-i-s-s* of knowing what YOU want will cover Both waterfronts! BTW: Messr.JM, Cheers re-YourBible! Am bypassing Amazon, 4cheapLocal source. It's sameBauble, right; Alleluia! Blessings on win-winChore, Ms.Diane! Dear Diane,
You’ve shared another goodly reason why *self-chats* should come first [even B4either of U!].

…Can’t understand how U2 tripped from A-to-Z w/o some preliminary something!

Unless…Ohhh… He’s so appealing, U changed course & intentions midway.

JMdear’s *k-i-s-s* of knowing what YOU want will cover Both waterfronts!

BTW: Messr.JM, Cheers re-YourBible!
Am bypassing Amazon, 4cheapLocal source. It’s sameBauble, right; Alleluia!

Blessings on win-winChore, Ms.Diane!

]]> By: Terry http://manslations.com/2008/12/04/how-long-before-an-ultimatum/comment-page-1/#comment-5681 Terry Thu, 04 Dec 2008 16:24:39 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1256#comment-5681 On-the-mark advice as usual, Jeff. As you suggest, she might ask him to meet her for lunch. If he's only into her for sex, she'll know it if he refuses (without good reason) or keeps looking at his watch during the meal. If that happens, she'll have to decide whether she wants to stick around for the great sex, or if she'd be happier moving on. Congratulations on the book, by the way! On-the-mark advice as usual, Jeff.

As you suggest, she might ask him to meet her for lunch. If he’s only into her for sex, she’ll know it if he refuses (without good reason) or keeps looking at his watch during the meal.

If that happens, she’ll have to decide whether she wants to stick around for the great sex, or if she’d be happier moving on.

Congratulations on the book, by the way!

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