Comments on: What he Means When he Says You Deserve Better http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/ Advice for smart women who are tired of feeling so stupid about men. Mon, 23 Jan 2012 04:24:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8321 mmagnolia Fri, 06 Jan 2012 05:14:35 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8321 WellWell--Dear Ms. *becca*! Be tickled 2give Him some goodCuriosity! Ask4detail on His Bit about "every time he loses"! What's His There.. that's There?Background of such a Bit can add flavor. But, Beware! The Bit isn't primary. Primary=YourFeelings4Him, HisPresence! Keep it simple because IT should BE! If His routine is Truth, Believe Him! Then...Tell Him He's YourWinner! In Any event, give Bouquets o'Joy2U! WellWell–Dear Ms. *becca*!

Be tickled 2give Him some goodCuriosity!
Ask4detail on His Bit about “every time he loses”! What’s His There.. that’s There?Background of such a Bit can add flavor. But, Beware! The Bit isn’t primary.

Primary=YourFeelings4Him, HisPresence!

Keep it simple because IT should BE!
If His routine is Truth, Believe Him!
Then…Tell Him He’s YourWinner!

In Any event, give Bouquets o’Joy2U!

]]> By: becca http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8320 becca Thu, 05 Jan 2012 23:54:04 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8320 What does it mean when a guys says you could trust him 100%.& that he isnt playing you that he isnt a player & he cant play the game because every time he loses What does it mean when a guys says you could trust him 100%.& that he isnt playing you that he isnt a player & he cant play the game because every time he loses

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8283 mmagnolia Sun, 04 Dec 2011 05:01:17 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8283 Dear Ms. MandyC, Yes, You "won't ever be the same" without TheHim if He remains His old version. That is a GoodThing. Give silent (or, unsilenced) thanks2Him for That! The future can embody You BeingBetter even with His absence. That can be a GoodThing; Thanks2Him for That, also! The *Tomorrow* which arrives when You smile on Today's bittersweetness can/will seem like a Bouquet of evergreens! Happy EveryBlessing of EveryNewYear! Dear Ms. MandyC,

Yes, You “won’t ever be the same” without TheHim if He remains His old version. That is a GoodThing. Give silent (or, unsilenced) thanks2Him for That!

The future can embody You BeingBetter even with His absence. That can be a GoodThing; Thanks2Him for That, also!

The *Tomorrow* which arrives when You smile on Today’s bittersweetness can/will seem like a Bouquet of evergreens!

Happy EveryBlessing of EveryNewYear!

]]> By: MandyC http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8281 MandyC Wed, 30 Nov 2011 15:14:12 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8281 I'm not sure what to do..obviously we are done..I have been in a relationship for over two years wanting more..taking what he gives me..that is my fault..I see that. I should have demanded more. He knows I love him..has known it..so why didn't he walk away a year ago when I said I love him..you don't have friends with benefits relationships for over 2 years..we were friends for a year before that..and I never saw him in a romantic way..but one day he was what I wanted..this wild crazy impulse..I called him up for a strip poker match..it was the best night of our lives..the chemistry is that good..romance novel chills to your toes good..the good that didn't really exist..and he is a friend too..he stopped being a friend that night..I wish I could go back and change that night..but would I..how could I live the rest of my life out without that experience..for the past two years I've had that experience every time we are together..I love him to pieces..I miss the friend I had..watching movies..listening to music..talking..I miss that person the most..a week ago I acceped a date and told him..afterall if he won't date me someone will..and I wanted to see how much he cared..if any..It was by text message that I told him..another one of our problems..we have never had a fight..we never have important discussions that might turn to relationship face to face..when I tried you could see this putt up a wall expression come over his face..so I didn't want to ruin our time together..I dropped it..he chooses not to answer me if I text him something important..that may have to do with feelings..I'm booty call to him..what he has turned me into..so back to I accept the date..I will see if he is jealous..the next day I ask for his help with something and his response is response is go get your date to help you with that..I'm real busy at work..Don't have time to talk..I try to make contact and he never replies to anything I send. I cancel my date for that night..my heart isn't In it..I tell him Ive canceled..no reply..I ask oh..are you still too busy to talk..he replies yep..and I say oh I cancel my date then you can reply..I get nothing back..for a whole week..we have gotten mad at eachother before and didn't talk for 5 weeks one time and 9 weeks the next..The 5 weeks was the first time..I wouldn't talk to him..the 9 weeks was him..now nothing again for a week. I send him a text yesterday morning saying I'm not going 9 weeks again..that its not fair for him to walk away with no word..and that I'm sick and tired of crying over someone that could just disappear over a date that I never went on and didn't even want to go on..I deserve better than him to just disappear on me..I'm 31 he is 35. Two grown people..he replies..Go live your life..we can still be friends..but only friends..have your dates..have your fun..stop crying..I'm at work gotta go..I reply..let's leave the dates part out of it..you can't say one thing..we can be friends..then follow it up with jealously remarks on my date that I didn't go on..it sends conflicting signals and I just want the truth..that's all I ever wanted from you..if you don't want me..that's what I want to hear..he replies..I said I'm at work..I can't talk..go on your dates..I reply no..stop with the date crap..do you not want me..that is what I want to hear..stop sending conflicting info..I need the whole truth from you..you have time to reply about dates so you have time to say the truth..he replies..this is me trying to be nice..Go live your life..go on your dates..have your fun..I reply back..I don't need you to be nice to me..you say we can still be friends but you trying to be nice doesn't imply that..I don't need you to be nice..I need you to be honest..that's all I need..he disappears..last night I sent him a goodbye message saying... I'm so broken..I feel like I've lost everything..and what kills me is it doesn't even seem to phase u..u could just erase me..wash ur hands and I never happened..u get so mad at me for being upset..but how could I not be upset..really how could I not be?..and u keep throwing go date and be happy in my face..a date I never went on..a date I never even wanted to go on..go be happy..im a long way from happy..I cant even breath right now..im a mess..if u wanted to be honest with me u could have thrown the truth in my face..that you never wanted to date me..but ur great in the sack..that is how you have treated me for a long time..a late night booty call..I thought that this time u would treat me differently..but if u wanted to..u would have!!..I never meant anything to u..u meant the world to me..It might be bearable if you felt just a little bit of the pain I feel..but u dont..u could just walk away and never look back..wash your hands..I never existed to u..you meant the world to me..Im completely broken..I dont need you to stay my friend for my benefit..so I guess this is goodbye instead of we are ok..ill say it for you..cause I know deep down you wont ever miss me enough..and you really don't want me to invite you over in a few months for a movie and to hang out..you havent wanted to for the past two years..so why would you start now..and thats the only thing I wanted back..the only thing ive wanted back for over two years..what we used to have before I messed everything up over a stupid poker night..if I could back up time..I would erase the best night of my life..I would erase the best two years of my life..I won't ever be the same without you in my life..those were your words once..you showed me you cared once..one time..and I treasured those words..but I really mean them as I say them..when I accepted that date..I wanted you to show me that you cared..that's all I ever wanted..but you showed me once again how much you didn't care..I don't need anything mean or hateful back from you..silence is an answer too..and if your reply was hateful..trying to be or not..silence I can take..my heart is bleeding enough as it is..Ive lost everything and I won't ever be the same without you..I won't ever be the same..go on now..you can go wash your hands now!!....So I took control of what was left..he wouldn't have tried to stay friends..and we can't be just friends..not after what we shared..I want him to realize what he had in me..a best friend..a lover..everything..but he didn't see it over the past two years when I didn't demand anything from him..I never wanted to be that woman that had to push a man into anything..I wanted him to want it on his own..what's done is done..he is gone..and he was the best two years of my life..and I've lost a huge chunk of my heart that I won't ever be able to give to someone else..this is the guy that you never escape..he always has a piece of you..he will cross your mind 40 years from now..and you'll probably shed a tear then too..wondering what could have been..can't make him see what he had..oh well! Thats my story..wanted to share it. I’m not sure what to do..obviously we are done..I have been in a relationship for over two years wanting more..taking what he gives me..that is my fault..I see that. I should have demanded more. He knows I love him..has known it..so why didn’t he walk away a year ago when I said I love him..you don’t have friends with benefits relationships for over 2 years..we were friends for a year before that..and I never saw him in a romantic way..but one day he was what I wanted..this wild crazy impulse..I called him up for a strip poker match..it was the best night of our lives..the chemistry is that good..romance novel chills to your toes good..the good that didn’t really exist..and he is a friend too..he stopped being a friend that night..I wish I could go back and change that night..but would I..how could I live the rest of my life out without that experience..for the past two years I’ve had that experience every time we are together..I love him to pieces..I miss the friend I had..watching movies..listening to music..talking..I miss that person the most..a week ago I acceped a date and told him..afterall if he won’t date me someone will..and I wanted to see how much he cared..if any..It was by text message that I told him..another one of our problems..we have never had a fight..we never have important discussions that might turn to relationship face to face..when I tried you could see this putt up a wall expression come over his face..so I didn’t want to ruin our time together..I dropped it..he chooses not to answer me if I text him something important..that may have to do with feelings..I’m booty call to him..what he has turned me into..so back to I accept the date..I will see if he is jealous..the next day I ask for his help with something and his response is response is go get your date to help you with that..I’m real busy at work..Don’t have time to talk..I try to make contact and he never replies to anything I send. I cancel my date for that night..my heart isn’t In it..I tell him Ive canceled..no reply..I ask oh..are you still too busy to talk..he replies yep..and I say oh I cancel my date then you can reply..I get nothing back..for a whole week..we have gotten mad at eachother before and didn’t talk for 5 weeks one time and 9 weeks the next..The 5 weeks was the first time..I wouldn’t talk to him..the 9 weeks was him..now nothing again for a week. I send him a text yesterday morning saying I’m not going 9 weeks again..that its not fair for him to walk away with no word..and that I’m sick and tired of crying over someone that could just disappear over a date that I never went on and didn’t even want to go on..I deserve better than him to just disappear on me..I’m 31 he is 35. Two grown people..he replies..Go live your life..we can still be friends..but only friends..have your dates..have your fun..stop crying..I’m at work gotta go..I reply..let’s leave the dates part out of it..you can’t say one thing..we can be friends..then follow it up with jealously remarks on my date that I didn’t go on..it sends conflicting signals and I just want the truth..that’s all I ever wanted from you..if you don’t want me..that’s what I want to hear..he replies..I said I’m at work..I can’t talk..go on your dates..I reply no..stop with the date crap..do you not want me..that is what I want to hear..stop sending conflicting info..I need the whole truth from you..you have time to reply about dates so you have time to say the truth..he replies..this is me trying to be nice..Go live your life..go on your dates..have your fun..I reply back..I don’t need you to be nice to me..you say we can still be friends but you trying to be nice doesn’t imply that..I don’t need you to be nice..I need you to be honest..that’s all I need..he disappears..last night I sent him a goodbye message saying…
I’m so broken..I feel like I’ve lost everything..and what kills me is it doesn’t even seem to phase u..u could just erase me..wash ur hands and I never happened..u get so mad at me for being upset..but how could I not be upset..really how could I not be?..and u keep throwing go date and be happy in my face..a date I never went on..a date I never even wanted to go on..go be happy..im a long way from happy..I cant even breath right now..im a mess..if u wanted to be honest with me u could have thrown the truth in my face..that you never wanted to date me..but ur great in the sack..that is how you have treated me for a long time..a late night booty call..I thought that this time u would treat me differently..but if u wanted to..u would have!!..I never meant anything to u..u meant the world to me..It might be bearable if you felt just a little bit of the pain I feel..but u dont..u could just walk away and never look back..wash your hands..I never existed to u..you meant the world to me..Im completely broken..I dont need you to stay my friend for my benefit..so I guess this is goodbye instead of we are ok..ill say it for you..cause I know deep down you wont ever miss me enough..and you really don’t want me to invite you over in a few months for a movie and to hang out..you havent wanted to for the past two years..so why would you start now..and thats the only thing I wanted back..the only thing ive wanted back for over two years..what we used to have before I messed everything up over a stupid poker night..if I could back up time..I would erase the best night of my life..I would erase the best two years of my life..I won’t ever be the same without you in my life..those were your words once..you showed me you cared once..one time..and I treasured those words..but I really mean them as I say them..when I accepted that date..I wanted you to show me that you cared..that’s all I ever wanted..but you showed me once again how much you didn’t care..I don’t need anything mean or hateful back from you..silence is an answer too..and if your reply was hateful..trying to be or not..silence I can take..my heart is bleeding enough as it is..Ive lost everything and I won’t ever be the same without you..I won’t ever be the same..go on now..you can go wash your hands now!!….So I took control of what was left..he wouldn’t have tried to stay friends..and we can’t be just friends..not after what we shared..I want him to realize what he had in me..a best friend..a lover..everything..but he didn’t see it over the past two years when I didn’t demand anything from him..I never wanted to be that woman that had to push a man into anything..I wanted him to want it on his own..what’s done is done..he is gone..and he was the best two years of my life..and I’ve lost a huge chunk of my heart that I won’t ever be able to give to someone else..this is the guy that you never escape..he always has a piece of you..he will cross your mind 40 years from now..and you’ll probably shed a tear then too..wondering what could have been..can’t make him see what he had..oh well! Thats my story..wanted to share it.

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8263 mmagnolia Wed, 09 Nov 2011 05:08:39 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8263 Well, Dear Ms. Nath.... ...However it is that yourThings turned, yourYOU 'reads' as Good! Take care at BeingBest2U! Well, Dear Ms. Nath….
…However it is that yourThings turned, yourYOU ‘reads’ as Good!

Take care at BeingBest2U!

]]> By: Nathalie http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8262 Nathalie Tue, 08 Nov 2011 10:17:05 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8262 @ Mmagnolia: Thanks so much for your advice... @ Mmagnolia: Thanks so much for your advice…

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8261 mmagnolia Mon, 31 Oct 2011 05:49:13 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8261 DearDear, Nathalie! First...Listen to your Fella! Don't even think of hurting yourSelf for ANY reason! Second, which-is-really-FirstFirst...Listen to yourSELF! Sweetest question is NOT "Do you think he still in love with me or with the new lady"! Your BestSweetness is to ask yourSelf whether YOU love him! But: Your love for him may NOT cure His cheating--which simply is a betrayl when cheating is undercover...so2say! Bestest of All: Cut the distance! Arrange Face2Face, noStrings conversation. Yes, dearNath, your most delicious Thanksgiving this year should be His full Truth. Invite him2share. If he refuses, feast on that as if it's a healthy Dessert! Welcome any opportunity to "take care"by being Good...2U! Your strength on this issue can be HisGoodness, too! Smile2Catch... Bouquets o'Blessings! DearDear, Nathalie!

First…Listen to your Fella! Don’t even think of hurting yourSelf for ANY reason!

Second, which-is-really-FirstFirst…Listen to yourSELF! Sweetest question is NOT “Do you think he still in love with me or with the new lady”!

Your BestSweetness is to ask yourSelf whether YOU love him!
But: Your love for him may NOT cure His cheating–which simply is a betrayl when cheating is undercover…so2say!

Bestest of All: Cut the distance! Arrange Face2Face, noStrings conversation.

Yes, dearNath, your most delicious Thanksgiving this year should be His full Truth. Invite him2share. If he refuses, feast on that as if it’s a healthy Dessert!

Welcome any opportunity to “take care”by being Good…2U! Your strength on this issue can be HisGoodness, too!

Smile2Catch… Bouquets o’Blessings!

]]> By: Nathalie http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8260 Nathalie Sun, 30 Oct 2011 05:50:27 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8260 hi baby, first i want to tell you that i did not call or send you any thing before because i don’t know what to say,i am very shy because you are always better than me i really love you too much i don’t know if i say sorry maybe is not enough i did too much mistakes i am lost with out you i really miss you i know you will never trust me again and will never give another chance, you really deserve better than me you are soo good person i know i lost you and i really regretted what i did please don’t do any thing with your self you don’t deserve to think about me or because of you do something with your self because of me , i don’t know what to write really sorry , sorry sorry love love you i really love you , take care . (This is the mail my boyfriend sent me because I found out that he’s sleeping with his colleague. He has done this many times with different ladies. We are in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. I threatened my boyfriend to kill myself cuz of what he did and for hurting me so much. Pls help me, what does my boyfriend mean about his letter? Do you think he still in love with me or with the new lady? Plssss help.. Thanks. hi baby, first i want to tell you that i did not call or send you any thing before because i don’t know what to say,i am very shy because you are always better than me i really love you too much i don’t know if i say sorry maybe is not enough i did too much mistakes i am lost with out you i really miss you i know you will never trust me again and will never give another chance, you really deserve better than me you are soo good person i know i lost you and i really regretted what i did please don’t do any thing with your self you don’t deserve to think about me or because of you do something with your self because of me , i don’t know what to write really sorry , sorry sorry love love you i really love you , take care .

(This is the mail my boyfriend sent me because I found out that he’s sleeping with his colleague. He has done this many times with different ladies. We are in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. I threatened my boyfriend to kill myself cuz of what he did and for hurting me so much. Pls help me, what does my boyfriend mean about his letter? Do you think he still in love with me or with the new lady? Plssss help.. Thanks.

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8206 mmagnolia Sat, 06 Aug 2011 04:33:09 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8206 Dearie LoverPedia! Sure...unless the "Love" is of-leading-on! MerciBouquets 4joining St. Paul to challenge the poet who [paraphrasingly] warned us that: If Life and Love is young, and truth on every tongue, we would waltz on clouds! BeBlessed w/everyJoy of Tennessee! Dearie LoverPedia!

Sure…unless the “Love” is of-leading-on!
MerciBouquets 4joining St. Paul to challenge the poet who [paraphrasingly] warned us that:
If Life and Love is young, and truth on every tongue, we would waltz on clouds!

BeBlessed w/everyJoy of Tennessee!

]]> By: LoverPedia http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8199 LoverPedia Tue, 02 Aug 2011 02:01:56 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8199 Love is kind, love is patient, it does not lead someone on when they are not interested..>Great Post! Love is kind, love is patient, it does not lead someone on when they are not interested..>Great Post!

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