Comments on: What he Means When he Says You Deserve Better

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 02:45:56 +0000

DearDear Ms. Alison,
Yep…am liking Your notion!
Also am guessing that the “this” being true would depend on whether weWomen want to believe it and live happily ever after–possibly probably.

Absolutely definitely, Cheers & Bouquets!

By: alison

alison — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 11:54:55 +0000

maybe this is true..maybe not

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 05:01:24 +0000

Dear Ms. “fabulous” swavia charles,

*His* [versus 'our'] meaning depends on how He relates to You! Prof. JM words apply: Look at His actions.

Fabulous [defined by You] *treatment* means that You are “fabulous” to Him!
It IS simple; treatment tells fewer tales.

Look the gift in the kisser. Feel free to kiss The Kisser!
Alleluia! If You want to be…
Enjoy being His Happy Winner!

By: swavia charles

swavia charles — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 19:07:47 +0000

what does he mean when he says you are fabulous?

By: LA Lady

LA Lady — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 07:16:27 +0000

I learned about this line the hard way. First time I heard it I assumed he was being humble and couldn’t possibly mean it. I was wrong…
Second time I heard it my response was “You are right! I AM to good for you! Good Bye!” and I walked away. His jaw hit the floor and I never heard from him again, which was fine by me.

By: Mar

Mar — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 01:03:00 +0000

Yeah, I heard that one, too. Wish I hadn’t said “oh, how sweet” and just dumped his ass 12 years and 60 k ago.

By: T

Sun, 07 Dec 2008 15:24:28 +0000

Yep, needed that one too. Thanks Jeff.

By: elyse

elyse — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 19:28:13 +0000

It amazes me how many times I’ll read someone’s question here – and think, ‘yeah, why is that?’ – the situation and explanation seem like they’d be complicated. Then Jeff’s response puts it so quickly and succinctly in perspective. So many times, it’s a matter of paying attention to actions, not words – yet why is it so tough to remember this may be at the core of the answer? In so many ways, we females are intelligent, capable, etc – so why is this area such a blindspot….?

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 04:26:15 +0000

Dear All,
Fabulous Friday…indeed!

Considered DearJM’s query– “What do you hear when a guy tells you you’re too good for him”.
My answer = Yes! SireeBobby.

Thus, 2nd Bouquet 2Ms.Bloomsbury Bell!
Yes: DearSirens, we should expect [and pray that!] there is….ONE exception!

Yippee….
Got Answer; Ready4Commencement!

By: Bloomsbury Bell

Bloomsbury Bell — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 23:03:02 +0000

Yes–my ex said I was the best thing that ever happened to him, then moved on to “too good for me” and, once, “I’m not a nice guy” (apropos of nothing in particular). After that, every time he acted like a jerk or got caught in a lie, he would troll it out: “Hey, I told you I wasn’t a nice guy.”

Here’s the thing about that exit line: he might not really mean that you’re too good for him, but that doesn’t mean you can’t think that you are.