Comments on: Would a Guy Do All This Just for an Ego Boost? http://manslations.com/2008/12/10/would-a-guy-do-all-this-just-for-an-ego-boost/ Advice for smart women who are tired of feeling so stupid about men. Mon, 23 Jan 2012 04:24:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Shelby http://manslations.com/2008/12/10/would-a-guy-do-all-this-just-for-an-ego-boost/comment-page-1/#comment-6622 Shelby Thu, 23 Apr 2009 15:46:23 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1287#comment-6622 Thing is, my fiance is in a band. He plays sax, wears silly hats on stage and throws scarves out in the crowd to get people to cheer, plays around the room "to" people...it's all part of an act. He gets a TON of attention from girls and he makes eye contact with them on stage so that #1 they will leave tips in the tip jar and #2, to get them on the dance floor so that the bar or eatery will have them back to play again. That said, just because a guy is "flirty acting" doesn't mean that he is flirting. It's a giant ego-boost for him when chicks swarm, but (thankfully) he always comes and sits with me at his shows and if I'm not at a gig, he comes directly home, after. That said, flirting boosts a guy's ego and I see it all the time. His bandmates do it, too. I see guys with girlfriends loo at other chicks all the time, they just don't act on it and I also see girls try to talk to guys who aren't interested. The only way to really know what level a man's interest actually is would be to just ask, as Jeff said. Thing is, my fiance is in a band. He plays sax, wears silly hats on stage and throws scarves out in the crowd to get people to cheer, plays around the room “to” people…it’s all part of an act. He gets a TON of attention from girls and he makes eye contact with them on stage so that #1 they will leave tips in the tip jar and #2, to get them on the dance floor so that the bar or eatery will have them back to play again. That said, just because a guy is “flirty acting” doesn’t mean that he is flirting. It’s a giant ego-boost for him when chicks swarm, but (thankfully) he always comes and sits with me at his shows and if I’m not at a gig, he comes directly home, after. That said, flirting boosts a guy’s ego and I see it all the time. His bandmates do it, too. I see guys with girlfriends loo at other chicks all the time, they just don’t act on it and I also see girls try to talk to guys who aren’t interested. The only way to really know what level a man’s interest actually is would be to just ask, as Jeff said.

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/12/10/would-a-guy-do-all-this-just-for-an-ego-boost/comment-page-1/#comment-5729 mmagnolia Thu, 11 Dec 2008 04:03:54 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1287#comment-5729 Dear Alice, Yes, please...Depart *wonderland*, ASAP! Made that exit once, but Prof. JM's hailing it a "bravest" chore didn't apply. Methinks it depends on Person of interest. My own *Mr. Subject* = KindDarling, sooo, need 4bravery was nil. If His stars seem right4U, hop2*IT! Worse = He's attached; Best = He asks what took U so long [and tell 'em we wonder why waited 4U 2fess]. Stay in Pink w/HappyTrails! DearJM, Encore of Congratulations! This 10th day of 12th month is FirstTime! U ref'd herein to....."my wife". Seemed as if t'was Your one-millionth. Chirp On! Dear Alice,
Yes, please…Depart *wonderland*, ASAP!

Made that exit once, but Prof. JM’s hailing it a “bravest” chore didn’t apply. Methinks it depends on Person of interest. My own *Mr. Subject* = KindDarling, sooo, need 4bravery was nil. If His stars seem right4U, hop2*IT!

Worse = He’s attached;
Best = He asks what took U so long [and tell 'em we wonder why waited 4U 2fess].

Stay in Pink w/HappyTrails!

DearJM, Encore of Congratulations! This 10th day of 12th month is FirstTime! U ref’d herein to…..”my wife”. Seemed as if t’was Your one-millionth. Chirp On!

]]> By: Rain http://manslations.com/2008/12/10/would-a-guy-do-all-this-just-for-an-ego-boost/comment-page-1/#comment-5728 Rain Wed, 10 Dec 2008 21:27:52 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1287#comment-5728 Of course! Who would not like the attention. JM I just finished your book and loved it! Its like reading your website on paper. Of course! Who would not like the attention.

JM
I just finished your book and loved it! Its like reading your website on paper.

]]> By: Terry http://manslations.com/2008/12/10/would-a-guy-do-all-this-just-for-an-ego-boost/comment-page-1/#comment-5725 Terry Wed, 10 Dec 2008 17:30:45 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1287#comment-5725 Oh, my gosh, Jeff! We must be on the same wavelength. I sent a piece on this very subject to my mailing list just yesterday. Love your perspective on it. Must tell my readers about your book. TODAY! Oh, my gosh, Jeff! We must be on the same wavelength. I sent a piece on this very subject to my mailing list just yesterday. Love your perspective on it. Must tell my readers about your book. TODAY!

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