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Archive for December, 2008

When the Flag Only Comes up to Half Mast…

Interesting situation — this guy pursued Gina, bringing up the sex, himself. Once she finally decided to go for it, he couldn’t perform. He then told her that he was only slightly attracted to her. Hm. What’s that I smell? I swear, it smells like something that comes out of a bulls hiney. Hm. It’s [...]

Would a Guy Do All This Just for an Ego Boost?

Alice has been eye flirting with Mr. PrettyEyes. A while back, he had a girlfriend, but now she’s not sure. She feels a connection. Could he REALLY be flirting just to stroke his ego? (coughYEScough.) What should she do? Pretty simple situation… Guy winks and smiles at me one day, I fall in love with [...]

She’s Getting Some…But Not Enough

Ok, ladies. Here’s one that might be a little familiar to some of you. The stereotype is, of course, that the guy is always the one pushing for more sex. But what happens when it’s the other way around? Well, a reader named KC knows all about it, and she’s wondering if there’s anything she [...]

Manslations: The Book — IN STORES NOW!

Well, my dear manslatees, the time has arrived. Yes, that’s right. I went into my local Barnes & Noble the other day, and lo and behold, there it was — my friggin’ BOOK! It’s in the stores now, even as we speak! And it is, of course, available on Amazon.com! My advice? Buy the crap [...]

What he Means When he Says You Deserve Better

It’s Friday, ladies. And this week, that means it’s time for a quickie. What does a man mean when he says that you deserve “better than” him? Oh, this one always cracks me up, folks. It really does. Let’s manslate it: 2nd time asker here…different problem same guy! What does it mean when a guy [...]

How Long Before an Ultimatum?

Diane has a new relationship. Right now they’re having “great sex” but that’s about it. How long should she give him before she brings down the hammer, and says it’s not cool with her? Let’s find out what the expiration date is on his, “Free Sex” card is, and in the process, let’s all forget [...]

How to Ask a Man for What You Want Without Nagging

Sophia wants more. But she’s afraid that it’s coming across as nagging. How can she ask for what she wants, but not naggify the whole situation? No problem, Sophia. Got you covered. My question seems a simple one, yet I’m struggling. How do I ask for what I need in my relationship without coming off [...]

Contradictory Behavior or Just Pre-Nooky?

A reader named “B Berry” is wondering what this guy is after? Is he giving her a contradiction in his behavior? Or is it all about getting the sex? What’s this guy after? I’m not sure she’s looking at the right clues. Let’s get her story: gotta say your advice rocks.if a sense of humor [...]

What do Men Think of Well Paid Women

Welcome back, ladies. Today we’ve got a variation on a theme that we’ve seen before, people. What happens when a woman does really, really well for herself, financially? Does this have an effect on men? What do men really think of women who happen by accident of genetics or fear of poverty or whatever to [...]