Comments on: Love or Just Lonely? http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/ Advice for smart women who are tired of feeling so stupid about men. Fri, 04 May 2012 06:11:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-7425 mmagnolia Mon, 27 Sep 2010 03:45:20 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-7425 Dear Sherlyn...and all Dears! 4Sure, acts of Love are the "same" whether from true... Love OR Loneliness! 4sure, acts of Love are innately "good" regardless if wolf wears lambswool! Problems multiply when we "deny" Truth of ... Love OR Loneliness! Despite what turnips, lettuce love Truth! Dear Sherlyn…and all Dears!

4Sure, acts of Love are the “same” whether from true… Love OR Loneliness!

4sure, acts of Love are innately “good” regardless if wolf wears lambswool!

Problems multiply when we “deny” Truth of … Love OR Loneliness!

Despite what turnips, lettuce love Truth!

]]> By: Sherlyn Ocampo http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-7424 Sherlyn Ocampo Mon, 27 Sep 2010 03:21:24 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-7424 When you love a person or if you are lonely, you actually do the same thing but you will deny in the end that you had done something that is not good. When you love a person or if you are lonely, you actually do the same thing but you will deny in the end that you had done something that is not good.

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-7415 mmagnolia Tue, 21 Sep 2010 05:19:06 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-7415 Greetings--All Dears! Dear "King (man-in-house) Agilaen", Happy to have your back--nearly totally! Acts of both *Love* and *Loneliness* DO mimic, intersect, and duplicate! The gods have fun with us, There! Also can agree that interpretations of the *badness* or *goodness* of expressed Love DO rest at/depend on the recipient. That has to be Her [or His] Call! The difference between being *loving* and being *lonely* rest at/depend on the Feelings [after! expression completed] held by the one who expresses. Truly, our final Feelings can prove to us which of the *L* words apply. Love exists if we Feel some sense of peace, joy, fulfillment---after any expression! On one hand, the recipient DOES define whether our Love is for good or for bad-- for the recipient! However, like the unwritten rule that she who pays for pizza eats the last piece: The one who expresses Love defines the best part of Love--Love's Quality. Romantic Love will create joy and peace for two persons, or--at least, for One! Romantic Loneliness is incapable of creating joy and peace for anyOne--at all! Truly, our Hearts can tell us whether we are being loving or lonely! Problems arise when brains ignore hearts! Happy First Marriage... of Brains&Hearts! Greetings–All Dears!

Dear “King (man-in-house) Agilaen”,

Happy to have your back–nearly totally!
Acts of both *Love* and *Loneliness* DO mimic, intersect, and duplicate!
The gods have fun with us, There!

Also can agree that interpretations of the *badness* or *goodness* of expressed Love DO rest at/depend on the recipient. That has to be Her [or His] Call!

The difference between being *loving* and being *lonely* rest at/depend on the Feelings [after! expression completed] held by the one who expresses.

Truly, our final Feelings can prove to us which of the *L* words apply. Love exists if we Feel some sense of peace, joy, fulfillment—after any expression!

On one hand, the recipient DOES define whether our Love is for good or for bad– for the recipient!
However, like the unwritten rule that she who pays for pizza eats the last piece: The one who expresses Love defines the best part of Love–Love’s Quality.

Romantic Love will create joy and peace for two persons, or–at least, for One!
Romantic Loneliness is incapable of creating joy and peace for anyOne–at all!

Truly, our Hearts can tell us whether we are being loving or lonely! Problems arise when brains ignore hearts!

Happy First Marriage… of Brains&Hearts!

]]> By: King Agilaen http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-7413 King Agilaen Mon, 20 Sep 2010 05:40:39 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-7413 If you love a person or if you are lonely, you do the same thing, you express yourself but in a different way that can be bad or good to other person. If you love a person or if you are lonely, you do the same thing, you express yourself but in a different way that can be bad or good to other person.

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-7242 mmagnolia Thu, 22 Oct 2009 15:27:35 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-7242 Dear Professor JM and All! oops2lapse: There IS a "when" when love is foolproof. Yep....this is a (well)paid advertisement: A *human* fool is proof of Godly Love. .....A round of Alleluia for everyone! Dear Professor JM and All!
oops2lapse: There IS a “when” when love is foolproof.

Yep….this is a (well)paid advertisement:
A *human* fool is proof of Godly Love.
…..A round of Alleluia for everyone!

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-7241 mmagnolia Thu, 22 Oct 2009 05:41:56 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-7241 Dear Ms. Melly, MerciBouquets 4sharing good insights. Can add a replay of Prof. JM's words: "..when has love ever been foolproof.." [ca. 06/27/09]. Rereading Your+His words reaffirmed thinking that being *lonely* isn't a naturally vulgar, disdainful condition. Loneliness can be an opening or an obstruction to being *loving*. In a way, that's practical and that's a Goodthing! Could any of Us be loving, really--w/o some sense of loneliness to ignite a sense that some sense of Love is missing or desirable! Have noticed that receptivity to Love is most difficult when there's no sense of an absence, as in a loneliness. Be cautious of *extremes*. Thus and So...It's okay to welcome loneliness, even as strangest bedfellow. Love, Cheers! Dear Ms. Melly,
MerciBouquets 4sharing good insights.

Can add a replay of Prof. JM’s words: “..when has love ever been foolproof..” [ca. 06/27/09].

Rereading Your+His words reaffirmed thinking that being *lonely* isn’t a naturally vulgar, disdainful condition. Loneliness can be an opening or an obstruction to being *loving*. In a way, that’s practical and that’s a Goodthing!

Could any of Us be loving, really–w/o some sense of loneliness to ignite a sense that some sense of Love is missing or desirable! Have noticed that receptivity to Love is most difficult when there’s no sense of an absence, as in a loneliness. Be cautious of *extremes*.

Thus and So…It’s okay to welcome loneliness, even as strangest bedfellow.
Love, Cheers!

]]> By: Melly http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-7240 Melly Mon, 19 Oct 2009 06:30:40 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-7240 My 5 cents: I'd be careful if I were you L-or-L and take's Jeff's advice about leaving the wind to determine where this ship sails. The whole "I care about you but don't want a relationship" is not uncommon and for good reason. My personal experience with men like that, even to the point of using the "L" word, suggesting we get married etc just shows how far some men will go to keep you tied to their bedpost. It sounds to me like this guy might just be trying to maintain what appears like a relationship, so when you meet up again he can get what he wants while still feeding you the "I told you I don't want a relationship line". Always keep your options open! My 5 cents: I’d be careful if I were you L-or-L and take’s Jeff’s advice about leaving the wind to determine where this ship sails. The whole “I care about you but don’t want a relationship” is not uncommon and for good reason. My personal experience with men like that, even to the point of using the “L” word, suggesting we get married etc just shows how far some men will go to keep you tied to their bedpost.

It sounds to me like this guy might just be trying to maintain what appears like a relationship, so when you meet up again he can get what he wants while still feeding you the “I told you I don’t want a relationship line”. Always keep your options open!

]]> By: another day « World Goes Round http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-7175 another day « World Goes Round Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:57:25 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-7175 [...] been reading manslations. it’s a good blog. but it’s an ‘over’ blog, [...] [...] been reading manslations. it’s a good blog. but it’s an ‘over’ blog, [...]

]]> By: Jewel http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-6374 Jewel Wed, 25 Mar 2009 02:26:42 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-6374 My friend always told me something that I value uo to date"When people tell you who they are,listen"What am I hearing here... man slut.... doesnt want a relationship..... what else are you looking for here...I think that you should focus on your move,new town,new opportunities and I think that you should embrace this new phase and use it to heal,recover and move on.Am not sure what you want,but he has made it clear what he wants and I think you have all the answers you need to make a decision.Good luck I know it can be tough especially since you are in a new place,but make that challenge and opportunity and you will be great:) My friend always told me something that I value uo to date”When people tell you who they are,listen”What am I hearing here… man slut…. doesnt want a relationship….. what else are you looking for here…I think that you should focus on your move,new town,new opportunities and I think that you should embrace this new phase and use it to heal,recover and move on.Am not sure what you want,but he has made it clear what he wants and I think you have all the answers you need to make a decision.Good luck I know it can be tough especially since you are in a new place,but make that challenge and opportunity and you will be great:)

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2009/01/16/love-or-just-lonely/comment-page-1/#comment-5971 mmagnolia Mon, 26 Jan 2009 05:28:31 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1378#comment-5971 Dear 'h', Roger--mme gets it; Will sin noMore! Clarity is an ultimate OohLaLa+hhmmm! Dear ‘h’,
Roger–mme gets it; Will sin noMore!
Clarity is an ultimate OohLaLa+hhmmm!

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