Comments on: One Classic Mixed Signals Special, Comin’ Up

By: Zamora Lanz

Zamora Lanz — Sun, 08 May 2011 16:45:02 +0000

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By: Dallia Perez

Dallia Perez — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 09:30:32 +0000

It will really depend on the situation and how the two individual will react with it. This might be offending for some.

By: Garry Erilla

Garry Erilla — Sat, 02 Oct 2010 04:56:47 +0000

This will really destroy your friendship with someone if you had done something that is wrong to him or her. Men really have something to tell.

By: Suzy

Suzy — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 06:49:03 +0000

I want to share my story. I recently went on a vacation with a friend. At the time he was in a relationship and seems he still is. I have not asked lately if he has broken up with his girlfriend. My friend and I were coworkers for about 2 years. We managed to get really close and really enjoyed each others company; however, we were both in a relationship at the time. He moved on to another job but we kept in touch. I told him I was going on a vacation and he actually bought tickets to join me and my friend. We spent the weekend together had lots of fun and we kissed. It was very romantic. It felt really good for both of us. It was pretty intense. He said he likes me, he is attracted to me. He even asked me if I would date him? So we have been back for about a month now. First few days we texted each other. He was really emotional and expressive about how he felt. He said hew was convinced that he was with the wrong girl because he did not feel what he felt for me. He had told me that he had doubts about his relationship. So to cut the story short I am confused. We have not seen each other since we have been back and text now has turned to AIM, which is so childish for me. He keeps making remarks about the future, which involves me. He said he is in the process of breaking up with his girlfriend. I am not sure what to think. I think he likes me and there is a connection. I feel there is something that is worth trying, but I wont allow myself to initiate anything if he is still with his girlfriend. Help!

By: Nat

Nat — Thu, 21 May 2009 00:41:13 +0000

But why do guys do this to women they are friends with? It happened to me recently and hurts way more when it’s a friend rather than a stranger. It also hurts when you know the guy who pulls this shit is way less attractive than you are too. WTF?

By: Jewel

Jewel — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 23:04:15 +0000

plus if there is one thins that I have learnt from the manslator it is.. if a mans actions and words conflict.. take his actions…just remember that and you will be fine

By: Jewel

Jewel — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 22:59:54 +0000

There is nothing unclear about this situation.He jsut wants to fulfill his physical needs while he can,as someoen put it hormones at work.I have learnt in life that everyone takes care of themselves and so I think in this case decide what you want out of this and if you’re too good for no strings sex then cut contact for a while..But sweetheart there are no mixed signals here.. its crystal clear what he wants and it boild down to what you want.

By: Selena

Selena — Sat, 14 Feb 2009 00:50:28 +0000

Forget about the guy for a minute, what about LeAnn’s choice here? Apparantly they started something, were sleeping together and then the guy tries to back out saying he might be moving soon and doesn’t want anyone getting hurt. He calls her days later and boom! she’s back in bed with him. What message is LeAnn sending here? If I were this guy I’d think she was just fine with sleeping with me up until I moved (if I actually did).

I don’t think this guy is a jerk any more than LeAnn is for knowing the score and deciding “what the hell let’s do it”. Mixed signals? Nah. More like hormones at work.

Be interesting to see how this one plays out. What happens if he doesn’t move?

By: hmgfiae

hmgfiae — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 04:13:46 +0000

ahah, that’s a funny interpretation, with lots of truth in it.

By: Amber

Amber — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 22:04:15 +0000

Yes, this advice is spot-on. I wish I would’ve known this years ago, but live and learn. And let me tell you, it is better to cut contact with him now than to let him string you along and use you until he finds someone with whom he CAN be in a relationship.

Out of curiosity, how should you respond when he says ‘well, I told you I didn’t want a relationship . . . ‘? Is there a way to make him feel REALLY wretched about it? (sinister laugh here)