Comments on: Will He Still Respect Her In the Morning? http://manslations.com/2009/02/18/will-he-still-respect-her-in-the-morning/ Advice for smart women who are tired of feeling so stupid about men. Fri, 04 May 2012 06:11:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: debra http://manslations.com/2009/02/18/will-he-still-respect-her-in-the-morning/comment-page-1/#comment-6132 debra Thu, 19 Feb 2009 14:59:47 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1506#comment-6132 As a general rule, I wait until I am comfortable that I know what will happen afterward. If I'm not sure that if I sleep with a man, that he will disappear the next day, then I shouldn't be sleeping with him. How do you get there? Have a conversation, as many above suggest. If you can't have a conversation, sex probably isn't a great idea yet! don't worry about the rules, you'll know when you're ready. If you don't know, you're not ready yet. As a general rule, I wait until I am comfortable that I know what will happen afterward. If I’m not sure that if I sleep with a man, that he will disappear the next day, then I shouldn’t be sleeping with him. How do you get there? Have a conversation, as many above suggest. If you can’t have a conversation, sex probably isn’t a great idea yet! don’t worry about the rules, you’ll know when you’re ready. If you don’t know, you’re not ready yet.

]]> By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2009/02/18/will-he-still-respect-her-in-the-morning/comment-page-1/#comment-6129 mmagnolia Thu, 19 Feb 2009 04:57:56 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1506#comment-6129 Dear Mimi M, Congrats + Happy Bday! I Love *debuts*! JMdear gave Wordsperfect! His note on "be safe" is a good perch. Safety of Yourbody [His2] is a Neutral, and there's many roads 2safety. TALK is a must....on subject named "sex". S-e-x, as in history, condom, toy, fantasy, fear, lurking expartner/s, etc...! Don't talk selves out of IT, but cover the waterfront. This could weed 'em out if he's a one-timer. Foreplay is a mindthing2! Practice some snuggles as U debrief [yes, pun!] Also wondering....whether Messr.Noble has been on a shelf as haveU! Compare notes. If He's skittish2.....More Heat, eh! IT can be better than A FirstTime. Gosh! it would be a First... w/U2! Being wiser and more wonderful will count for something Much, somehow! If moment allows, report back 2Camp! Candles & Cheers [Break aBedpost]! Dear Mimi M,
Congrats + Happy Bday! I Love *debuts*!

JMdear gave Wordsperfect! His note on “be safe” is a good perch. Safety of Yourbody [His2] is a Neutral, and there’s many roads 2safety. TALK is a must….on subject named “sex”. S-e-x, as in history, condom, toy, fantasy, fear, lurking expartner/s, etc…!

Don’t talk selves out of IT, but cover the waterfront. This could weed ‘em out if he’s a one-timer. Foreplay is a mindthing2! Practice some snuggles as U debrief [yes, pun!]

Also wondering….whether Messr.Noble has been on a shelf as haveU! Compare notes. If He’s skittish2…..More Heat, eh!

IT can be better than A FirstTime.
Gosh! it would be a First… w/U2!
Being wiser and more wonderful will count for something Much, somehow!
If moment allows, report back 2Camp!

Candles & Cheers [Break aBedpost]!

]]> By: Liz C http://manslations.com/2009/02/18/will-he-still-respect-her-in-the-morning/comment-page-1/#comment-6118 Liz C Wed, 18 Feb 2009 19:27:12 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1506#comment-6118 I'm 50, and I know the old programming dies hard. The whole radical notion that 'The Rules' were not the end-all and be-all as we were taught is mind-blowing. But it's amazingly freeing! I'd say make out a lot, and follow your instincts (aka groin.) :) I’m 50, and I know the old programming dies hard. The whole radical notion that ‘The Rules’ were not the end-all and be-all as we were taught is mind-blowing. But it’s amazingly freeing! I’d say make out a lot, and follow your instincts (aka groin.)
:)

]]> By: Sassy http://manslations.com/2009/02/18/will-he-still-respect-her-in-the-morning/comment-page-1/#comment-6117 Sassy Wed, 18 Feb 2009 16:16:16 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1506#comment-6117 Great advice as usual, JeffMac. I also suggest an honest, open talk. If you're worried, let him know in a low-key way that you'd like to wait until you're feeling more comfortable. If he knows how you're feeling, you can both work on this together. If he flakes after a talk, then he's not your guy anyway. Great advice as usual, JeffMac.

I also suggest an honest, open talk. If you’re worried, let him know in a low-key way that you’d like to wait until you’re feeling more comfortable. If he knows how you’re feeling, you can both work on this together.

If he flakes after a talk, then he’s not your guy anyway.

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