Comments on: Is He Shy or Just Not Interested? http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/ Advice for smart women who are tired of feeling so stupid about men. Mon, 23 Jan 2012 04:24:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-7307 mmagnolia Fri, 22 Jan 2010 05:18:35 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-7307 Dear Ms. Ann, Congratulations! Your recognition of feelings shows good, strong character. Now...You need to rack up good strength to share those feelings! Wondering about Your Prince cannot feed any frog. Mr. Shy showed positive response 2U, sooo, take the plunge! He can respond positively again. Fearless hearts win. Your involvement with Him would be a Blessing for Him. Already, You are blessed by that honesty of *feelings*! On a different bright side, if He doesn't respond positively, You will avoid wasted time and needless anxiety. Smile! Enjoy the cheers of Your priceless Peace! Dear Ms. Ann,
Congratulations! Your recognition of feelings shows good, strong character.

Now…You need to rack up good strength to share those feelings! Wondering about Your Prince cannot feed any frog.

Mr. Shy showed positive response 2U, sooo, take the plunge! He can respond positively again. Fearless hearts win.
Your involvement with Him would be a Blessing for Him. Already, You are blessed by that honesty of *feelings*!

On a different bright side, if He doesn’t respond positively, You will avoid wasted time and needless anxiety. Smile!

Enjoy the cheers of Your priceless Peace!

]]> By: Ann http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-7302 Ann Sat, 16 Jan 2010 00:55:35 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-7302 I really need an advice here. There is that guy i just knew few months ago. He's one of these shy quite guys aroung ppl whom he doesnt knw and espesially around girls. went out with him and some of my causins coz he's my brother friend. while we were sitting and talking i knew he usually wakes up around 5A.m. and we all started talking of how he can make it up that early which is the opposite of all of us. Then there is that day where i started texted him good morning text messages for a whole week. where he also started two times from the three i started and he seems to be nice in text messages. i used to text him "how r u, whats up, what are u examing tomorrow and these kind of questions and he sends the same questions back to me. So does this seem that he might be entersting or is he just being nice. plus i get the feeling that he's talkitive in messages and wants to keep texting me but doesnt know what exactly to talk about or how. Then there is that day where i havent texted him, but the day after i found a call from him and i called him back bu there was no answer, after an hour he texted me" Hi, how r u. Sorry my dad miss dailed you coz his phone is phone and wanted to call mum nd he miss dailed six other ppl. hope ur good. So i dont know i just knew him there is nothing much going between us. One day in our texts i texted him and he was like will u beleive me if i told u i was abou to text u now. Good morning! Ahh and one day through the texts i send was driving and istening to music thats y i havent heard ur message right away. He replied seriously, thats my favortie part:D. Then i sent him well will take u aride one day if u'd like too. he sent me yaea definatly jusst let me know and ill even drive and let you put the music too."thats it i dont know if he's interested or not. What can i do, what can i text, should i give him a call and start, or should i take it slowly and get to know him more personally, if yes how can i? i really need help and i dont know how.Thanks alot. Take care I really need an advice here. There is that guy i just knew few months ago. He’s one of these shy quite guys aroung ppl whom he doesnt knw and espesially around girls. went out with him and some of my causins coz he’s my brother friend. while we were sitting and talking i knew he usually wakes up around 5A.m. and we all started talking of how he can make it up that early which is the opposite of all of us. Then there is that day where i started texted him good morning text messages for a whole week. where he also started two times from the three i started and he seems to be nice in text messages. i used to text him “how r u, whats up, what are u examing tomorrow and these kind of questions and he sends the same questions back to me. So does this seem that he might be entersting or is he just being nice. plus i get the feeling that he’s talkitive in messages and wants to keep texting me but doesnt know what exactly to talk about or how. Then there is that day where i havent texted him, but the day after i found a call from him and i called him back bu there was no answer, after an hour he texted me” Hi, how r u. Sorry my dad miss dailed you coz his phone is phone and wanted to call mum nd he miss dailed six other ppl. hope ur good. So i dont know i just knew him there is nothing much going between us. One day in our texts i texted him and he was like will u beleive me if i told u i was abou to text u now. Good morning! Ahh and one day through the texts i send was driving and istening to music thats y i havent heard ur message right away. He replied seriously, thats my favortie part:D. Then i sent him well will take u aride one day if u’d like too. he sent me yaea definatly jusst let me know and ill even drive and let you put the music too.”thats it i dont know if he’s interested or not. What can i do, what can i text, should i give him a call and start, or should i take it slowly and get to know him more personally, if yes how can i? i really need help and i dont know how.Thanks alot. Take care

]]> By: sarabella http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-6724 sarabella Tue, 05 May 2009 22:45:08 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-6724 hunter, your lust/dehorn insights are bell ringers, tho' 2 and 24 months later. seems similar to another's advice that the best way to get 'over' someone is to get 'under' someone. but, am thinking if it's so easy, everyone would be doing it that way,...right. wish could wish it hunter,

your lust/dehorn insights are bell ringers, tho’ 2 and 24 months later.

seems similar to another’s advice that the best way to get ‘over’ someone is to get ‘under’ someone.
but, am thinking if it’s so easy, everyone would be doing it that way,…right.

wish could wish it

]]> By: Selena http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-6237 Selena Sun, 08 Mar 2009 12:09:12 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-6237 Maureen, I think your best bet is to avoid this guy as much as you can. Being around him, even casually, is reinforcing the crush. You will find it easier to move on if you never see him. "Out of sight, Out of mind" - ya know? Good luck, I know how uncomfortable this situation can feel. Maureen,
I think your best bet is to avoid this guy as much as you can. Being around him, even casually, is reinforcing the crush. You will find it easier to move on if you never see him. “Out of sight, Out of mind” – ya know?

Good luck, I know how uncomfortable this situation can feel.

]]> By: hunter http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-6235 hunter Sun, 08 Mar 2009 01:51:53 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-6235 Maueen, you lust this man so much, that I, can almost taste it!.....some therapists recommend that people get dehorned with an old boyfriend/girlfriend, 'cause if you go onto someone new, that won't work out, that just makes more work for the therapist!..... Maueen, you lust this man so much, that I, can almost taste it!…..some therapists recommend that people get dehorned with an old boyfriend/girlfriend, ’cause if you go onto someone new, that won’t work out, that just makes more work for the therapist!…..

]]> By: MAUEEN http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-6234 MAUEEN Sun, 08 Mar 2009 01:22:34 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-6234 Hi Selena, thnaks so much for taking the time to answer and put things in perspective. By not hanging around til he deals with the breakup, I meant i would move on if there was nothing there for me , not that i would continue to pursue him even if he was with some one. You are right, I am def reading more into his every little move and word because I want so much for there to be more and a chance for me with him..but i know that is against all odds. I hate to break anyone up, not what i want at all. If he is not into me, then I have to start getting into the getting over him mode and I'm not ready to do that yet. Thanks for wake up call Selena, not mean at all.Deanna, I will give you your post back now, thanks for sharing...please keep us posted about the fella. And yes def factor in the age..guys that age are very skittish about even the word "relationship". He def likes you tho..no doubt about that. Things will play out the way they are supposed to in the end, I always beleive. Hi Selena, thnaks so much for taking the time to answer and put things in perspective. By not hanging around til he deals with the breakup, I meant i would move on if there was nothing there for me , not that i would continue to pursue him even if he was with some one. You are right, I am def reading more into his every little move and word because I want so much for there to be more and a chance for me with him..but i know that is against all odds. I hate to break anyone up, not what i want at all. If he is not into me, then I have to start getting into the getting over him mode and I’m not ready to do that yet. Thanks for wake up call Selena, not mean at all.Deanna, I will give you your post back now, thanks for sharing…please keep us posted about the fella. And yes def factor in the age..guys that age are very skittish about even the word “relationship”. He def likes you tho..no doubt about that. Things will play out the way they are supposed to in the end, I always beleive.

]]> By: Selena http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-6232 Selena Sat, 07 Mar 2009 21:53:47 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-6232 Maureen, The guy is still in a relationship. It's not over. Even if it's shaky right now, he's still "not done yet". You are jumping the gun here sweetie. You don't want a guy who's still so involved, still living with? his girlfriend. He won't look you in the eye, hems and haws, is vague about going anywhere with you because HE STILL HAS A GIRLFRIEND. You don't want to wait around "til he “deals” with his break up"? What the ?does that mean if you want him now and he's not even broken up? My logical conclusion is despite your heavy 2 yr. crush, he isn't into you. Otherwise, he would be with you and not his girlfriend. Do you think you might be reading more into what he says when you see him, because you want there to be more? My intention is not to be mean, but seriously, you don't need to be going after a guy who is still living with a girlfriend. How would you feel if the situation was reversed? Maureen,

The guy is still in a relationship. It’s not over. Even if it’s shaky right now, he’s still “not done yet”. You are jumping the gun here sweetie.

You don’t want a guy who’s still so involved, still living with? his girlfriend. He won’t look you in the eye, hems and haws, is vague about going anywhere with you because HE STILL HAS A GIRLFRIEND.

You don’t want to wait around “til he “deals” with his break up”? What the ?does that mean if you want him now and he’s not even broken up?

My logical conclusion is despite your heavy 2 yr. crush, he isn’t into you. Otherwise, he would be with you and not his girlfriend. Do you think you might be reading more into what he says when you see him, because you want there to be more?

My intention is not to be mean, but seriously, you don’t need to be going after a guy who is still living with a girlfriend. How would you feel if the situation was reversed?

]]> By: MAUEEN http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-6231 MAUEEN Sat, 07 Mar 2009 15:05:04 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-6231 THANKS DEANNA, I know he bought her flowers on Valentine's day so how could he be breaking up with her. He did not look me straight in the eye when he was talking about the break up, kind of hummed and hawed about it .If he was not into me at all, then why not just say "no thanks"> I think i just want to know if he is into me , at this point, in whatever capacity. I don't want to wait around til he "deals" with his break up.so if he is into me, which is my only logical conclusion, what the hey do i do now? 2 years of serious crushing to be wrapped up here. Thanks so much and hunter, you are right, i am not into threesomes, even with him. THANKS DEANNA, I know he bought her flowers on Valentine’s day so how could he be breaking up with her. He did not look me straight in the eye when he was talking about the break up, kind of hummed and hawed about it .If he was not into me at all, then why not just say “no thanks”> I think i just want to know if he is into me , at this point, in whatever capacity. I don’t want to wait around til he “deals” with his break up.so if he is into me, which is my only logical conclusion, what the hey do i do now? 2 years of serious crushing to be wrapped up here. Thanks so much and hunter, you are right, i am not into threesomes, even with him.

]]> By: hunter http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-6227 hunter Sat, 07 Mar 2009 04:26:04 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-6227 CeeCee mentioned "gentlemanly rules", I prefer to call it, "Dating Code". CeeCee mentioned “gentlemanly rules”, I prefer to call it, “Dating Code”.

]]> By: hunter http://manslations.com/2009/02/23/is-he-shy-or-just-not-interested/comment-page-1/#comment-6226 hunter Sat, 07 Mar 2009 04:24:24 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1503#comment-6226 Maueen, most women don't stick around to make it a threesome. He may have the hots for you and wants a F### buddy. Maueen, most women don’t stick around to make it a threesome. He may have the hots for you and wants a F### buddy.

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