Comments on: Did He Just Make a Move, Or Was His Leg Just Tired…Seriously. http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/ Ask for Jeff Mac's advice on what men think -- about relationships, dating, sex, love, squirrels, whatever. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 00:30:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Kelly http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6424 Kelly Tue, 31 Mar 2009 23:38:04 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6424 Different Kelly... I could say I was the girlfriend because just recently my ex-boyfriend had been flirting with a bartender at a bar we hung out at. He had been telling her lies and she did the smart thing and asked me about what was going on with us. I appreciated her telling me and she helped me to realize what I was trying to figure out... did I still love him? The fact that she told me this and it didn't hurt me told me that I was no longer in love with him and I am now free! The girl and I are friends and he's without either of us! Different Kelly… I could say I was the girlfriend because just recently my ex-boyfriend had been flirting with a bartender at a bar we hung out at. He had been telling her lies and she did the smart thing and asked me about what was going on with us. I appreciated her telling me and she helped me to realize what I was trying to figure out… did I still love him? The fact that she told me this and it didn’t hurt me told me that I was no longer in love with him and I am now free! The girl and I are friends and he’s without either of us!

]]> By: indian_girl http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6334 indian_girl Thu, 19 Mar 2009 10:35:31 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6334 I love the ending paragraph Jeff ! Great Advice ! I love the ending paragraph Jeff ! Great Advice !

]]> By: kelly http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6327 kelly Wed, 18 Mar 2009 02:51:51 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6327 Thanks everyone for your feedback and thanks to you Jeff! Your interpretation was right on and hilarious! Im a little green after being recently divorced after 15 years and needed some interpretation. To answer some of the earlier posts. The leg leaning thing was for about fiftheen minutes, Ive known him since the 7th grade, he's not a player and most would consider him shy. So perhaps I am overanalyzing the whole thing. The whole thing was a bit shocking to me considering he does have a girl friend. Lucky for me Im mature enough to realize that any guy looking to a woman to get him out of an unhappy situation is not the kind of guy that I really want. Appreciate the advice. Thanks guys! Thanks everyone for your feedback and thanks to you Jeff! Your interpretation was right on and hilarious! Im a little green after being recently divorced after 15 years and needed some interpretation. To answer some of the earlier posts. The leg leaning thing was for about fiftheen minutes, Ive known him since the 7th grade, he’s not a player and most would consider him shy. So perhaps I am overanalyzing the whole thing. The whole thing was a bit shocking to me considering he does have a girl friend. Lucky for me Im mature enough to realize that any guy looking to a woman to get him out of an unhappy situation is not the kind of guy that I really want. Appreciate the advice. Thanks guys!

]]> By: strawhat http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6326 strawhat Wed, 18 Mar 2009 02:06:34 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6326 putting my 2 cents worth in here, i would not even give him the chance to rest his leg as you put it,what he does to others he will do to you, are you ready for pain and heart break?cause that's all that will come of it give it a miss there's better out there for you putting my 2 cents worth in here,
i would not even give him the chance to rest his leg as you put it,what he does to others he will do to you, are you ready for pain and heart break?cause that’s all that will come of it
give it a miss there’s better out there for you

]]> By: KC http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6322 KC Tue, 17 Mar 2009 18:28:15 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6322 Kelly - my question to you would be how well do you know this guy? Is he a best friend who you've known for years, or a random dude you've just recently met. I ask because I have some close male friends who I may jokingly lean on etc etc but that by NO MEANS would suggest that I have feelings for them. However, if I had physical contact with someone I just met and don't know very well.... well that may mean I'm interested.... Kelly – my question to you would be how well do you know this guy? Is he a best friend who you’ve known for years, or a random dude you’ve just recently met. I ask because I have some close male friends who I may jokingly lean on etc etc but that by NO MEANS would suggest that I have feelings for them. However, if I had physical contact with someone I just met and don’t know very well…. well that may mean I’m interested….

]]> By: Nhina http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6320 Nhina Tue, 17 Mar 2009 07:48:58 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6320 What is up with guys with girlfriends who do this sort of thing? Ah! Definitely a case of over analysing.. as the other ladies have stated! What is up with guys with girlfriends who do this sort of thing? Ah!

Definitely a case of over analysing.. as the other ladies have stated!

]]> By: kaizen http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6315 kaizen Tue, 17 Mar 2009 02:36:55 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6315 Part of the reason I overanlze and try to look into someone's action is that I'm looking for love...that grand passion.After almos 3 years of being single and numerous guys touching or looking and reading manslations I have finally realized that it takes two to tango- basic fact but so true. Most guys I've met have shown some form of attraction whether looking or touching.But often times because I'm not attracted I don't give a green signal or other times I like the guy so much that I make excuses for him. I'm 34 and now I've realized that for a healthy adult relationship I need to be an adult too and figure out what I want .I've been in this kind of a situation and everyone here is on the same page .he did touch your leg because he is attracted.Now it's upo you whether you want a guy who shows little respect to his current girlfriend in your life.Even id she is at fault for some reason he should put that relationship torest before he goes rubbing his thigh to someone else's thigh. Part of the reason I overanlze and try to look into someone’s action is that I’m looking for love…that grand passion.After almos 3 years of being single and numerous guys touching or looking and reading manslations I have finally realized that it takes two to tango- basic fact but so true. Most guys I’ve met have shown some form of attraction whether looking or touching.But often times because I’m not attracted I don’t give a green signal or other times I like the guy so much that I make excuses for him. I’m 34 and now I’ve realized that for a healthy adult relationship I need to be an adult too and figure out what I want .I’ve been in this kind of a situation and everyone here is on the same page .he did touch your leg because he is attracted.Now it’s upo you whether you want a guy who shows little respect to his current girlfriend in your life.Even id she is at fault for some reason he should put that relationship torest before he goes rubbing his thigh to someone else’s thigh.

]]> By: Selena http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6310 Selena Mon, 16 Mar 2009 21:36:54 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6310 "Testing the waters" is my guess. He was attracted to you and wanted to see what your reaction would be to thigh-to-thigh contact. Talking 'sum trash about his girlfriend to other people? This is a guy looking to cheat his way out of his relationship. Maybe with you. Hence, the testing. What a winner. Yuck. “Testing the waters” is my guess. He was attracted to you and wanted to see what your reaction would be to thigh-to-thigh contact.

Talking ‘sum trash about his girlfriend to other people? This is a guy looking to cheat his way out of his relationship.

Maybe with you. Hence, the testing.

What a winner.

Yuck.

]]> By: Ali http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6307 Ali Mon, 16 Mar 2009 19:11:42 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6307 I am the same page with Maueen... we over analize every single thing. He waves hi and we think that he's head over heels for us, he took the time to raise his hand and wave, he looked at you for 2 seconds and we think he took the time to look at us, it probably meant not much to him but to us over analytical women that we are it meant a lot. Men and women are sooooo different and Jeff could not put it any better even if he tried. He's always right! I bow to you, Jeff! I am the same page with Maueen… we over analize every single thing. He waves hi and we think that he’s head over heels for us, he took the time to raise his hand and wave, he looked at you for 2 seconds and we think he took the time to look at us, it probably meant not much to him but to us over analytical women that we are it meant a lot. Men and women are sooooo different and Jeff could not put it any better even if he tried. He’s always right! I bow to you, Jeff!

]]> By: TJo http://manslations.com/2009/03/16/did-he-just-make-a-move-or-was-his-leg-just-tiredseriously/comment-page-1/#comment-6306 TJo Mon, 16 Mar 2009 18:12:32 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1638#comment-6306 " I like a guy who has been dating someone for a long time. He clearly doesn’t like her and has made known to others that he doesn’t love her" and you want to date this guy because?? So, why does he stay with her, obviously making it known to others his "feelings" about her? I'd really question that. And, is this someone you want to date? Remember (2) things, if they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you. Do you really want to date a guy of this caliber? Who thinks it's ok to tell everyone, except his girlfriend about his negative feelings, and continues to stay in the relationship anyway???? And , you teach people how to treat you. I'd stay far away from this guy until he is free & clear of any current GF's and even then, proceed with caution. ” I like a guy who has been dating someone for a long time. He clearly doesn’t like her and has made known to others that he doesn’t love her” and you want to date this guy because?? So, why does he stay with her, obviously making it known to others his “feelings” about her? I’d really question that. And, is this someone you want to date? Remember (2) things, if they’ll do it with you, they’ll do it to you. Do you really want to date a guy of this caliber? Who thinks it’s ok to tell everyone, except his girlfriend about his negative feelings, and continues to stay in the relationship anyway???? And , you teach people how to treat you. I’d stay far away from this guy until he is free & clear of any current GF’s and even then, proceed with caution.

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