Comments on: He Can’t HANDLE the Truth! http://manslations.com/2009/03/18/he-cant-handle-the-truth/ Advice for smart women who are tired of feeling so stupid about men. Fri, 04 May 2012 06:11:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Jewel http://manslations.com/2009/03/18/he-cant-handle-the-truth/comment-page-1/#comment-6362 Jewel Mon, 23 Mar 2009 22:57:28 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1641#comment-6362 I think this boils down to trust in a relationship.Its the one thing that is very vital,that coupled with communication.Once you trust your partner you will have piece of mind and your heart wont race every second he turns his head to look at another woman. Now communication, if you want to put forward your observations its very vital to not come of like you are making accusations otherwise like any individual he will get defensive. So trust him and talk to him about your concerns in a tactful manner and you will be fine.Plus one extra thing men will always look I guess the issue is.... Is that all he does or does he act on it?If all he does is look and thats it,looking never killed anybody. I think this boils down to trust in a relationship.Its the one thing that is very vital,that coupled with communication.Once you trust your partner you will have piece of mind and your heart wont race every second he turns his head to look at another woman.
Now communication, if you want to put forward your observations its very vital to not come of like you are making accusations otherwise like any individual he will get defensive.
So trust him and talk to him about your concerns in a tactful manner and you will be fine.Plus one extra thing men will always look I guess the issue is…. Is that all he does or does he act on it?If all he does is look and thats it,looking never killed anybody.

]]> By: MAUEEN http://manslations.com/2009/03/18/he-cant-handle-the-truth/comment-page-1/#comment-6342 MAUEEN Fri, 20 Mar 2009 00:09:05 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1641#comment-6342 I think a deeper question might be how secure do you feel in this relationship in general and in his love for you? It sounds like you are feeling unsure about how much he loves you and how much he is into you all. Maybe you feel unappreciated or taken for granted and this manifests itself primarily in your questioning or "observing him" ? I am sorry, Kristina, I don't mean to make it sound like it is YOUR issue and not his..his caginess and defensiveness are covering an underlying irritation or discontent that he is not mature enough to open with you about. This my $0.02 based on my own experience. I do not get insecure or upset when my guy looks at other girls or even talks to them because I feel very secure and content in the fact that Iam the only one for him and we have built up that trust over the years. I could see myself feeling very insecure and "observatory" if I felt he was not happy in the rleationship and possibly not in love with me. Good luck Kristina. As ancient Jeff Mac proverb once said "the only way out of this one is through it". I think a deeper question might be how secure do you feel in this relationship in general and in his love for you? It sounds like you are feeling unsure about how much he loves you and how much he is into you all. Maybe you feel unappreciated or taken for granted and this manifests itself primarily in your questioning or “observing him” ? I am sorry, Kristina, I don’t mean to make it sound like it is YOUR issue and not his..his caginess and defensiveness are covering an underlying irritation or discontent that he is not mature enough to open with you about. This my $0.02 based on my own experience. I do not get insecure or upset when my guy looks at other girls or even talks to them because I feel very secure and content in the fact that Iam the only one for him and we have built up that trust over the years. I could see myself feeling very insecure and “observatory” if I felt he was not happy in the rleationship and possibly not in love with me. Good luck Kristina. As ancient Jeff Mac proverb once said “the only way out of this one is through it”.

]]> By: Ali http://manslations.com/2009/03/18/he-cant-handle-the-truth/comment-page-1/#comment-6335 Ali Thu, 19 Mar 2009 20:14:09 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1641#comment-6335 Well said, Selena.. "guys who have learned to be subtle about it". Guys don't like these type of observations especially if they're true. Sometimes they think they are being discreet but fail miserably. I personally don't mind my man looking discreetly at another woman. Sometimes, I'll even beat him to it and compliment her on her shoes, clothing, hair while he gets a good look at her. But it better be mutual, if a HOT guy comes my way he better not complain if I look. But then again, I'm not the jealous type so these things don't bother me. Well said, Selena.. “guys who have learned to be subtle about it”. Guys don’t like these type of observations especially if they’re true. Sometimes they think they are being discreet but fail miserably. I personally don’t mind my man looking discreetly at another woman. Sometimes, I’ll even beat him to it and compliment her on her shoes, clothing, hair while he gets a good look at her. But it better be mutual, if a HOT guy comes my way he better not complain if I look. But then again, I’m not the jealous type so these things don’t bother me.

]]> By: Selena http://manslations.com/2009/03/18/he-cant-handle-the-truth/comment-page-1/#comment-6329 Selena Wed, 18 Mar 2009 19:07:40 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1641#comment-6329 I'm wondering how often she brings these "observations" up. Once in awhile? Or very frequently? If it's very frequently perhaps she has a jealousy problem and he's sick of it. If he is often *obvious* about his attraction to other women when he's around her, she might as well dump him. Better to find one of the millions of other guys who have learned to be subtle about it. I’m wondering how often she brings these “observations” up. Once in awhile? Or very frequently?

If it’s very frequently perhaps she has a jealousy problem and he’s sick of it.

If he is often *obvious* about his attraction to other women when he’s around her, she might as well dump him. Better to find one of the millions of other guys who have learned to be subtle about it.

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