manslations

A reader going by the name “sarabella this moment” wants to know if there are any good reasons for an interested, available man to avoid a similarly attributed woman? There might be, S_T_M, there might be. Let’s see… yes–am a longtime faithful, reading lurker.  am undercover, so call me “sarabella this moment”. if question belongs [...]

Here’s one of those situations where some women seem to get themselves a little turned around in the feelings department. What’s that you say? WOMEN confused at the feelings thing? I thought that it was MEN who weren’t up on the whole feelings dealie. Well, sure. But sometimes women are SO in touch with their [...]

A reader named Nancy just met someone…6 weeks after he broke up with his ex of 5 years. He seems to be walking the Walk of a Decent Guy, but is it too soon for him? (Oh, there’s a Walk of a Decent Guy. You watch us sometime. It’s really stiff with lots of shoulder [...]

Here’s a request that likely got my attention, at least in part, due to what I sincerely hope is a pen-name. Our gentle reader, Harlot McSlutlot, asks…is there EVER a reason for a guy to turn down sex…MID-sex??? The answer might not be what you think… Is there ever a reason for a guy to [...]

Debbie just met a guy who lives far away. He’s hitting the gas pretty hard on moving forward, and she’s wondering — would a guy really go through all of THAT just to get some tail? In fact, Debbie’s asking the wrong question. Lemme ‘splain. First, her question: I have read your book and all [...]

Michalene’s sometime guy is telling her some strange things. Look at that tiny little bit of pink text — what am I going to do, summarize it? No. No I am not. Let’s just go ahead and read it before we even get started, shall we? hi jeff, i have this guy i really like [...]

A reader named Kate dumped her man. Twice-ish. He doesn’t really want to come back for another round (she doesn’t say why, but I have to assume that it’s because he’s less of a moron than I usually am.) She’s trying to figure out where it all when wrong. Let’s find out. My boyfriend and [...]

A reader named Tammie is currently on the market for some “how do you do, madam” and is getting more of the old “how’s about dropping trou, milady?” She’s looking for ways to get more o’ the former and less o’ the latter. I am 44 years old and I have just started dating recently, [...]

A very young dater named Jessica is looking for a little manslation regarding a gentleman who “likes to play with girl’s heads.” You know, one of those ones that we in the business like to refer to as a “manipulative douchebag.”  So what was he thinking? Gosh, I almost wish she didn’t want to know. [...]

A reader named Jane has a question that is so brief, it would be ludicrous of me to do anything but just let you read the damn thang. I’ve already written twice as much as she did. My ex and I broke up, because of distance. he wants to visit me? why? Dear Jane, Ok, [...]