Comments on: When He Tells You You’re Trouble http://manslations.com/2009/04/17/when-he-tells-you-youre-trouble/ Ask for Jeff Mac's advice on what men think -- about relationships, dating, sex, love, squirrels, whatever. Tue, 27 Jul 2010 15:10:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: blubari http://manslations.com/2009/04/17/when-he-tells-you-youre-trouble/comment-page-1/#comment-6719 blubari Tue, 05 May 2009 17:15:03 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1747#comment-6719 If a guy called me "trouble," after sleeping with me, even jokingly, I would intuitively feel they were pre-emptively explaining the distance they were about to insert into things while playing like they (wink wink) just can't handle their feelings for you. (And we fall for it). If a guy called me “trouble,” after sleeping with me, even jokingly, I would intuitively feel they were pre-emptively explaining the distance they were about to insert into things while playing like they (wink wink) just can’t handle their feelings for you. (And we fall for it).

]]> By: Selena http://manslations.com/2009/04/17/when-he-tells-you-youre-trouble/comment-page-1/#comment-6634 Selena Sat, 25 Apr 2009 13:08:52 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1747#comment-6634 When I've been on the receiving end of the "you're trouble" line it was always the guy's indirect way of saying he was attracted to me. Coy really, not an ominous predictor of anything. As far as this guy mentioning your allegded bf, or guy who comes over? It could be his way of giving himself an out to not pursue a relationship with you, but it could also be his way of ascertaining that you AREN't involved with anyone else. That is, he's trying to feel you out about how interested you might be in him before proceeding toward a relationship with you. Could go either way, only time will tell. If this guy is young he may not have learned how to be direct with women and his intentions yet. When I’ve been on the receiving end of the “you’re trouble” line it was always the guy’s indirect way of saying he was attracted to me. Coy really, not an ominous predictor of anything.

As far as this guy mentioning your allegded bf, or guy who comes over? It could be his way of giving himself an out to not pursue a relationship with you, but it could also be his way of ascertaining that you AREN’t involved with anyone else. That is, he’s trying to feel you out about how interested you might be in him before proceeding toward a relationship with you. Could go either way, only time will tell.

If this guy is young he may not have learned how to be direct with women and his intentions yet.

]]> By: cc http://manslations.com/2009/04/17/when-he-tells-you-youre-trouble/comment-page-1/#comment-6577 cc Mon, 20 Apr 2009 07:50:37 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1747#comment-6577 that said, a wry "you're trouble" statement from a boy alone can often mean "holy mcshit i can feel myself liking you and woah..." (etc.) which can be just as useless but not necessarily. the boyfriend thing is weird though. that said, a wry “you’re trouble” statement from a boy alone can often mean “holy mcshit i can feel myself liking you and woah…” (etc.) which can be just as useless but not necessarily.

the boyfriend thing is weird though.

]]> By: Pam http://manslations.com/2009/04/17/when-he-tells-you-youre-trouble/comment-page-1/#comment-6575 Pam Sat, 18 Apr 2009 12:02:44 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1747#comment-6575 Pretty much this dude is full of it. He doesnt want a relationship because if he did he wouldnt be saying things like that. I can understan if he says it in a joking way but if he says the same thing over and over that would get on my nerves. Pretty much this dude is full of it. He doesnt want a relationship because if he did he wouldnt be saying things like that. I can understan if he says it in a joking way but if he says the same thing over and over that would get on my nerves.

]]> By: Ali http://manslations.com/2009/04/17/when-he-tells-you-youre-trouble/comment-page-1/#comment-6572 Ali Sat, 18 Apr 2009 02:47:19 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1747#comment-6572 Wow! I've had a guy said i was trouble before too. I responded with the same "compliment" and we had/have our fun. This is the typical "you are too good for me" excuse which allows them to get some booty w/o the commitment. I always take it as a compliment, enjoy it while it lasts and then move on. That's if, and only if, you just want a casual/no strings attached relationship. Now if you are looking for something serious then take that comment as a huge red flag and get the hell out of there! Wow! I’ve had a guy said i was trouble before too. I responded with the same “compliment” and we had/have our fun. This is the typical “you are too good for me” excuse which allows them to get some booty w/o the commitment. I always take it as a compliment, enjoy it while it lasts and then move on. That’s if, and only if, you just want a casual/no strings attached relationship. Now if you are looking for something serious then take that comment as a huge red flag and get the hell out of there!

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