Comments on: Why Would this Single Man Leave this Married Woman? Hello?

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Mon, 02 May 2011 03:19:59 +0000

Dear “Mr. Magoo”,

Your comment amuses, befuddles, and cheers…. because *marriage* is making [seems so] no *mar”onto U as woman!

AnniversaryBouquets 2You & YrMagoo!

By: Mr.Magoo

Mr.Magoo — Sun, 01 May 2011 04:36:11 +0000

I am a married woman

By: Dody

Dody — Sun, 01 Aug 2010 16:31:34 +0000

Dear Jeff Mac,

I enjoyed reading your book, “MANSLATIONS”! It’s complete in knowledge and humor….. Although, I’m extremely mature and intelligent, it’s gross to think “men” envision sex with every woman that crosses their path! Honestly, it makes me gag and sick to my stomach.
Jeff, I had always wondered why there isn’t a man alive, (or so, in my case), who wants to be just “friends”….Most of them say to me, and I quote, “not you woman, you’re just too gorgeous”! For me, that’s utter sadness.

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 02:20:13 +0000

Dear Ms. Laura,

Yes! there is a “path” , and it’s best when paved with SIMPLY *being* happy!
Yes! there are two sides of a coin, usually!

Let me be angel’s advocate of *Love is a many-splendored thing*! Relations are multi-dimensional, usually and distinctly.

Possibly…Usually: Folks “who seek out married individuals are usually not seeking a healthy comitted relationship”.
However: Definitions of health and commitment within relationships differ from person2person and, even, within the same relationship–from time2time!

Oops!: Am absolutely disagreeing on existence of a “totally evil side”…even on our womanly side of Heaven!
Surviving challenge is a perpetually Good thing, and….so is LOVE!

By: Laura

Laura — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 21:39:32 +0000

This sucks. I think you probably feel like you will be lonely if he breaks up with you because, chances are, you aren’t in a totally supportive relationship with your husband, and, you probably can’t talk to your friends/family about this. I think you probably just have to accept his decision because you can’t change your situation in the short-term (divorce is a long, messy, drawn-out process). Honestly, I think you have to deal with this like any other break up. Ice cream, chocolate, wine. Then after the initial shockwave is over, you’ll have to start dealing with the rest. Good luck! You’re not alone! Lots of people go through this. The important thing is to find a path that WILL make you happy, because it does exist. By the way, I’ve been on the totally evil side of this coin (the other-woman), and I have to agree with Jeff. People who seek out married individuals are usually not seeking a healthy comitted relationship.

By: dorothy

dorothy — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 22:57:53 +0000

I think the furthest a married woman can go is having a platonic relationship (Non romantic). Just love your husband…no one can love you as he does…

By: Melissa

Melissa — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 23:01:13 +0000

Holy Moly Lindsey!

Is there really a mystery here?

Women “typically” cheat for one of two reasons:
1. Important needs not being met.
2. Revenge – he did it, so I will, too.

You haven’t shared the following:
1. How long you’ve been married.
2. Is this your first affair.
3. Are you planning to STAY married.

Boy wonder either got tired of being #2, decided that the novelty of an illicit relationship has run its course, or met a single lady who piqued his interest. He couldn’t afford to get very attached to you, and did the right thing by ending it.

What needs did he REALLY fulfill, or was this a game to you?

The important question you should be asking yourself is: Is your marraige worth saving? If so, get busy. Outside assistance is needed at this point. If there are basic incompatibility issues, perhaps it’s not salvageable. Do the right thing for you and your husband and end it NOW. (Agreeing w Selena on that latter point.)

There is alot of satisfaction and fulfillment to be had in life Lindsey, however, we have to position ourselves so we can claim it.

Good luck to you, and keep us posted on your progress.

Melissa

By: Seductress

Seductress — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 14:37:00 +0000

Uh-oh…make that, “inappropriate”!

By: Seductress

Seductress — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 14:34:50 +0000

In bed or out of bed, the relationship was innapropriate to say the least and as Jeff mentioned began with no where to really go.

Why did he leave? Who knows, but it was a smart move on his part.

By: mmagnolia

mmagnolia — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 04:09:42 +0000

Howdy, *hun*!
…Good point…seems most of us went over That cliff!

Given, Umention it: On another pillow, Your “spent any time with this man in bed” also is General, Coloneldear!

What’s Your “in bed” about? Coulda been reading tomes, sharing munchies!
MayB Fella got tired of scrapping crumbs!

Hooray, U’re back! Merci4Lesson!
Happy Testing!
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