You can direct questions to my favorite blogger like Jeff is, who also gives great advice – http://happygirlmusing.blogspot.com

My personal opinion is that, if he really liked you, he would have made time to email you atleast once in 2-3 days if he really liked you that much.Without having much communication with him at all, I don’t think moving with him would be wiser ! Think again , girl friend !
Wishing you the best,
Cheers,
- X

Cheapest, quickest can be emailing each other—even via public library computers. Yes, You need to ask questions IF You want answers versus *wonderings*.

Your concern about raising relationship issues which can “make him upset/mad” is a Basic Problem which obstructs much fruitful *relating*! If ego or pride ranks First for either One, The Happy Ending is made impossible and improbable!

On the brightest side: Two can live cheaper than one! If job hunting can be best where He is which is where-U-were, consider returning! There’s only one way to know if *He* would like that: Ask! If response is lukewarm, Ask Why!

Weak heart fails, so be valiant!
Best Blessings on Both of Your Hearts!

I know you probably won’t read this but I just feel kinda stuck and feel like I have to speakout what’s on my mind..
I just don’t know who to turn to for advice

The problem is: My boyfriend and I have known each other for 4 years now. He is 23 and I’m almost 24 by the way. Though we live seperated for 2 years now. I gave him an ultimatum 2 years ago because all of a sudden he withdrew. He started coming home late and never had time for me. I felt alone so I broke up with him. After the break up we decide to stay friends and kept in touch. We kept calling each other once in a while, maybe 1 time in 2-3 weeks. Right now we live 2 hours from each other so the phone is our only source of keeping in touch with each other.

5 months ago we decided we cannot live without each other and wanted to give it another try. We’re planning to move in very soon.
We made that decision 5 months ago and things are moving slowly. A little off schedule to say the least.
I’ve lost my job so the money is tight. He doesn’t have a great paying job as well and makes just enough to get by. Problem is: We don’t see each other.
Now I’ve heard it a million times….If a guy loves you he will move mountains and he will find a way to travel this 2 hours just to see you.
Lately I’ve started to believe it and I just feel so insecure.

It just doesn’t feel like we’re lovers…In the past 5 months we’ve only seen each other 2-3 times. The money is tight and the tickets for public transport are way to expensive.
And as if that were not enough…his cell phone broke. I cannot reach him. And so I wait till he calls me. The worst part is…he only calls me once in a while. Yeah you’ve heard that right…once in a while.

Sometimes I don’t hear from him in weeks. He only calls me 1 time in 1-2 weeks and when he calls we have less than 5 minutes of conversation. He says he is busy with work. I think he is just to proud to admit that he has no money to call me since its very important in his culture to be a provider for the woman.
I really love him but I just dont know how to handle this situation. Im stuck. Is it the lack of money for phone calls and train tickets or am I really not his number one priority?

I just dont know whats going on…and most of all I dont know how to go about asking him why he is acting the way he is. What’s the reason for his lack of calls? I wish I could get into his mind and find out what he is thinking.
I don’t even know how to bring the subject up as I dont want to upset him and make him upset/mad. Hope someone can help me. =(

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Cheers2Being Changeable!