Comments for manslations http://manslations.com Advice for smart women who are tired of feeling so stupid about men. Mon, 23 Jan 2012 04:24:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on Do Men Get Heartbroken? by mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2007/12/19/do-men-get-heartbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-8339 mmagnolia Mon, 23 Jan 2012 04:24:48 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/12/19/do-men-get-heartbroken/#comment-8339 MyMy...Dear "df"! You wave someReality! Mr. Newt, Ms. Monica, et alii are Oneville! ...Somersaults w/o someSalts! MyMy…Dear “df”!

You wave someReality!
Mr. Newt, Ms. Monica, et alii are Oneville!
…Somersaults w/o someSalts!

]]> Comment on Do Men Get Heartbroken? by df http://manslations.com/2007/12/19/do-men-get-heartbroken/comment-page-1/#comment-8334 df Sat, 21 Jan 2012 20:10:27 +0000 http://manslations.com/2007/12/19/do-men-get-heartbroken/#comment-8334 What people need to do is stop listening to stereotypes about men and women. Everything you hear and see from the media is total lies and double standards. Both genders do get heartbroken, both genders do cheat, and the list goes on. What people need to do is stop listening to stereotypes about men and women. Everything you hear and see from the media is total lies and double standards. Both genders do get heartbroken, both genders do cheat, and the list goes on.

]]> Comment on Book Recommendation: “Date or Wait: Are You Ready for Mr. Great?” by the Dating Goddess. by Uneven ardor | Do Me Dolls http://manslations.com/2009/01/26/book-recommendation-date-or-wait-by-the-dating-goddess/comment-page-1/#comment-8333 Uneven ardor | Do Me Dolls Sat, 21 Jan 2012 02:34:53 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1411#comment-8333 [...] Jeff Mac, of Manslations.com fame, reviewed Date or Wait on his web site. Read it here. [...] [...] Jeff Mac, of Manslations.com fame, reviewed Date or Wait on his web site. Read it here. [...]

]]> Comment on When His Ex Wants Him Back by pixie http://manslations.com/2008/01/04/when-his-ex-wants-him-back/comment-page-1/#comment-8329 pixie Wed, 18 Jan 2012 10:17:47 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/04/when-his-ex-wants-him-back/#comment-8329 Try reading I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper - a book for anyone who needs help and advice dealing with their partner’s past relationship(s) - brilliant read! Available on Amazon or most bookstores - Kindle or paperback! Try reading I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper – a book for anyone who needs help and advice dealing with their partner’s past relationship(s) – brilliant read! Available on Amazon or most bookstores – Kindle or paperback!

]]> Comment on A Constantly Criticizing Man… by wendyr http://manslations.com/2008/01/03/a-constantly-criticizing-man/comment-page-1/#comment-8325 wendyr Fri, 13 Jan 2012 05:42:37 +0000 http://manslations.com/2008/01/03/a-constantly-criticizing-man/#comment-8325 NO MORE CRITICISM!! Today, I stood my ground. No tears. No cursing. No more explaining how 'that hurt my feelings' again. Yes, I probably could have toned down the level of my voice, but today I said, "NO MORE! I will not take your criticism of me any longer! I am sick and tired of you criticizing me for everything I say and everything I do! I want you to be supportive of me and not find fault in me for whatever I do. I am not you! I don't think like you; I think like me! I will never be you, and you will never be me! I don't appreciate your constant barrage of negative opinions of me especially when you are the one that starts the arguments that cause me to lose my temper! I have asked you on several occasions to stop belittling me yet you continue, and I am tired of it! Stop telling me that I shouldn't have said this or shouldn't have felt that just because that's not how you would react! The negative attack that I received from whomever wasn't towards you, so don't tell me how I should feel and how I should respond! You lay there and say how you agreed with my opinions and how you are on my side but then you have the nerve to follow it up with an insult about my reaction? How dare you?! Stop interrupting me by telling me I'm right with a very condescending tone in your voice insinuating that I shut up! Stop looking at me with your sarcastically raised eyebrows as if you're trying to figure out why I'm so upset with you right now when the reason why I've gotten to this point is because you put me here! Now I'm leaving, again! No, better yet why don't you leave!" After apologizing for offering an unsolicited opinion and acknowledging the fact that I am an entitled to my own opinion and for making me angry again he agreed to go sleep in the basement for the night because I told him I wasn't comfortable staying in the same bed with him because of how angry he makes me feel. I've taken it for more than 18 years now, and once again I'm putting my foot down, only this time I mean it! I used to cry after the yelling didn't work, but that gave him more power over me. Today I realized how strong of a woman I am, and how I have overcome many obstacles in my life. I should have never allowed myself to be put down in any fashion, and if this time he decides he's going to leave for good then so be it! I don't deserve to be treated this way, and I won't put up with it any longer!! NO MORE CRITICISM!!
Today, I stood my ground. No tears. No cursing. No more explaining how ‘that hurt my feelings’ again. Yes, I probably could have toned down the level of my voice, but today I said, “NO MORE! I will not take your criticism of me any longer! I am sick and tired of you criticizing me for everything I say and everything I do! I want you to be supportive of me and not find fault in me for whatever I do. I am not you! I don’t think like you; I think like me! I will never be you, and you will never be me! I don’t appreciate your constant barrage of negative opinions of me especially when you are the one that starts the arguments that cause me to lose my temper! I have asked you on several occasions to stop belittling me yet you continue, and I am tired of it! Stop telling me that I shouldn’t have said this or shouldn’t have felt that just because that’s not how you would react! The negative attack that I received from whomever wasn’t towards you, so don’t tell me how I should feel and how I should respond! You lay there and say how you agreed with my opinions and how you are on my side but then you have the nerve to follow it up with an insult about my reaction? How dare you?! Stop interrupting me by telling me I’m right with a very condescending tone in your voice insinuating that I shut up! Stop looking at me with your sarcastically raised eyebrows as if you’re trying to figure out why I’m so upset with you right now when the reason why I’ve gotten to this point is because you put me here! Now I’m leaving, again! No, better yet why don’t you leave!”

After apologizing for offering an unsolicited opinion and acknowledging the fact that I am an entitled to my own opinion and for making me angry again he agreed to go sleep in the basement for the night because I told him I wasn’t comfortable staying in the same bed with him because of how angry he makes me feel.
I’ve taken it for more than 18 years now, and once again I’m putting my foot down, only this time I mean it! I used to cry after the yelling didn’t work, but that gave him more power over me. Today I realized how strong of a woman I am, and how I have overcome many obstacles in my life. I should have never allowed myself to be put down in any fashion, and if this time he decides he’s going to leave for good then so be it! I don’t deserve to be treated this way, and I won’t put up with it any longer!!

]]> Comment on What Do Men REALLY Think of First Date Sex? by Sex on the First Date – Do White Men Only Want Black Women for Sex?! « HOME http://manslations.com/2008/08/28/what-do-men-really-think-of-first-date-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-8322 Sex on the First Date – Do White Men Only Want Black Women for Sex?! « HOME Fri, 06 Jan 2012 22:07:11 +0000 http://manslations.wordpress.com/?p=507#comment-8322 [...] this article from manslations really made a lot of sense to me. So maybe it will do the same for you: [...] [...] this article from manslations really made a lot of sense to me. So maybe it will do the same for you: [...]

]]> Comment on What he Means When he Says You Deserve Better by mmagnolia http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8321 mmagnolia Fri, 06 Jan 2012 05:14:35 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8321 WellWell--Dear Ms. *becca*! Be tickled 2give Him some goodCuriosity! Ask4detail on His Bit about "every time he loses"! What's His There.. that's There?Background of such a Bit can add flavor. But, Beware! The Bit isn't primary. Primary=YourFeelings4Him, HisPresence! Keep it simple because IT should BE! If His routine is Truth, Believe Him! Then...Tell Him He's YourWinner! In Any event, give Bouquets o'Joy2U! WellWell–Dear Ms. *becca*!

Be tickled 2give Him some goodCuriosity!
Ask4detail on His Bit about “every time he loses”! What’s His There.. that’s There?Background of such a Bit can add flavor. But, Beware! The Bit isn’t primary.

Primary=YourFeelings4Him, HisPresence!

Keep it simple because IT should BE!
If His routine is Truth, Believe Him!
Then…Tell Him He’s YourWinner!

In Any event, give Bouquets o’Joy2U!

]]> Comment on What he Means When he Says You Deserve Better by becca http://manslations.com/2008/12/05/what-he-means-when-he-says-you-deserve-better/comment-page-1/#comment-8320 becca Thu, 05 Jan 2012 23:54:04 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=1258#comment-8320 What does it mean when a guys says you could trust him 100%.& that he isnt playing you that he isnt a player & he cant play the game because every time he loses What does it mean when a guys says you could trust him 100%.& that he isnt playing you that he isnt a player & he cant play the game because every time he loses

]]> Comment on Is He Over That Ex or Not? by pixie http://manslations.com/2008/06/02/is-he-over-that-ex-or-not/comment-page-1/#comment-8319 pixie Thu, 05 Jan 2012 14:59:11 +0000 http://manslations.wordpress.com/?p=285#comment-8319 Just finished reading I Hate His Ex by Alex Cooper. Brilliant read for anyone having relationship troubles to do with past relationships :) xxxx Just finished reading I Hate His Ex by Alex Cooper. Brilliant read for anyone having relationship troubles to do with past relationships :) xxxx

]]> Comment on He’s Hot then Cold then Gone then Back? Wha? by Sian http://manslations.com/2008/09/19/hes-hot-then-cold-then-gone-then-back-wha/comment-page-1/#comment-8318 Sian Thu, 05 Jan 2012 12:44:53 +0000 http://manslations.com/?p=945#comment-8318 Tracey, he isnt into you. Move on and dont expend any more energy on talking for hours with him. You are not his therapist or dumping ground.Enough! Tracey, he isnt into you. Move on and dont expend any more energy on talking for hours with him. You are not his therapist or dumping ground.Enough!

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